We never know what awaits us beyond the horizon after the wedding. We hope that the future will be "and they lived happily ever after," but how do things really goi?
Practice shows that almost all couples who have been married for more than a couple of years, note that there are crises, both acute and protracted, and there are problems in relationships that extinguish feelings. But still, if you marry for love, then any spark of passion can be supported and heated to the flame! And psychologists do not get tired to rush forth with advice on how to achieve this.
These are 12 ways to keep your passion alive with your man. They will help you make your relationship passionate, even if it is long lasting.
#1 Good night kisses. Never neglect such a trifle as a kiss for the night or before going to work. This is a part of your ritual, which brings you closer.
#2 Small gifts. Give each other little nice presents. Ideally, when they are completely unexpected and understandable only to the two of you.
#3 Confessions. These are the truest, strongest and most beautiful words that you can tell your spouse. Believe me, this is not just a phrase, it's a magical spell that will strengthen your union with each utterance.
#4 Answer each call. If your husband or wife calls you or writes SMS texts while you are sitting in front of the TV or reading a book, answer. Take a moment and answer. If you are so busy that there is simply no second, find half a second to let your partner know that you are very busy, but you will find time to respond later.
#5 Arrange romantic plans. Make up your perfect weekend together and try to implement it in real life.
#6 Respect each other's time.Do you have plans for the evening? Business trip, meeting with friends or working at a job? Tell them about it as much as possible in advance, and you will avoid discontent from the other half sitting out all evening.
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#7 Touch each other.Yes Yes! Touch each other. Walk with locked arms or hands, or if you like it, put your head on your spouse's shoulder, and hug and kiss their wrists. The more you touch each other, the stronger the contact between you.
#8 Pay Attention.If you have dinner or drink coffee in a cafe with your spouse, go to the movies, or just walk around the city, look at him, pay attention to him. Do not write SMS texts to friends, do not call your colleagues, and, God forbid, do not look at every passing man or woman passing by in beautiful clothes, or at passing cars.
#9 Have sex!Do not talk about it, do not think. And do it. It inflames passion and makes communication between partners stronger. This is the best way to build a relationship!
#10 Give each other compliments. Don’t even think of taking each other for granted. Make sure to remind your partner how attractive he is every day.
#11 Send each other pictures during the day to get your partner ready for a passionate night. It will make your relationship more interesting and your partner will desire you more.
#12 Share your fantasies. It's never too late to try out something new, so don’t be shy to tell your partner what you want.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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