When you fall in love with someone, you start to see him only through rose-colored glasses. It seems that this guy is just woven of virtues. And he has no shortcomings. Unlike you. After all, you ... now it seems to you that you are generally worthless, for ever and ever.
Each girl needs to know the signs that the guy is not worthy of her attention. Dating this type of guy will make you unhappy because they will somehow suck you out of life. If you have already started dating a guy who is unworthy of your attention, it’s better to leave him.
Self-criticism is fine, but you need to know the measure. Because very often it turns out that this same guy is an ordinary moron, and it's not at all clear what you liked about him. But your self-esteem is still useful to you.
Believe us, you deserve better. A girl who is looking for true love should not tolerate such behavior. Even though you are very emotional when you are in love, you still need to assess your relationship critically.
#1 He often disappears
If your boyfriend often disappears and does not make any appearances for days or weeks, then it's time to say goodbye. In our time, it takes less than a minute to call or write a message, so stop accepting this behavior if it happens regularly. A guy who is in a serious relationship does not have to be tracked down, because he is always in touch with you.
#2 He emotionally offends you
Another sign of this kind of guy is emotional insults. Emotional violence has many forms, such as criticism, humiliation, insults, deprecations. If your boyfriend makes you feel bad, leave him. Such a guy will destroy your self-esteem and compromise self-confidence.
#3 He is conducting an interrogation
It's okay if your friend is often interested in your life, but if it looks like an interrogation, think about whether or not to be with him. The investigating guy is not confident in himself, and he will examine every hour of your life, looking for signs of suspicious behavior. Even when you are completely honest with him and sincere, he will accuse you of deceit. This type of guy thinks that all girls change, and no words will change his mind.
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#4 He makes little effort for the relationship
Relationships with a guy who makes little effort for your union can lead to your emotional exhaustion from the fact that you must do everything to keep the relationship afloat. Relationships require the work of two, and only then can people be happy and satisfied. It's unfair if the guy has shifted all responsibility to your shoulders. If he does not want to work on relationships, then do not even think about this guy.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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