Being able to tell if the man you are dating has fallen in love with you, without having to wait for him to gather his courage to tell you so, can be a tricky business. When in doubt, look to his behavior for hints about his true feelings. After all, actions speak louder than words.
1. He touches you
We are not talking about groping or any inappropriate gestures. We are talking about delicate touches, like brushing back a lock of your hair, resting a hand on your leg while sitting together, or bringing you closer by delicately pushing the small of your back towards him. He needs you to acknowledge these delicate gestures, so don’t hesitate to answer with light smooches, small hugs and hand holding while walking together.
2. Any excuse is good if it gets him to spend more time with you
Whether staying up later than advisable just to talk some more with you, or leaving his home earlier in the morning just to get to your place for a good morning greeting to brighten your day, or neglecting other, less essential activities to be with you, your man will try to find as much time as possible to spend with you.
3. Giving more than just a passing thought to things that interest you
If he is deeply in love with you, he will truly take an interest in things that are important to you. Not necessarily to do them with you, but to support and encourage you in doing them. He does this because he is really interested in knowing you better.
4. When you are around him, he lights up
Your entering the room will put a smile on his face. When a man is in love with you, he is happy just to be in your presence, no matter how crappy a time he had before you arrived.
5. He talks about your future together
As opposed to those men who would do everything to avoid imagining and talking about a future together because they are not really interested in going the distance, your man would frequently and easily talk about and even make plans for your future together, because he loves you and can’t imagine a future without you.
6. He is ready to meet your family and friends
Men are notoriously scared of meeting the woman’s family, because they usually consider it a test, which they are not quite sure they can pass. But when your man is deeply in love with you, he will be willing and ready to meet your family and your group of friends, even if this makes him feel insecure and awkward. That is how much he loves you.
7. Including you in his celebrations
When he gets a good news, or has a career success or simply feels happy for some reason, he will ask you to celebrate with him, because it seems only natural for him to celebrate the good moments in life with the person most important to him.
8. Being with him feels like you hit the jackpot
If being with him does not feel like work and, because of the way he acts towards you, you feel better and better about yourself, sometimes wandering about how lucky you are to have known him, you can be sure he is in love with you.
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