Emotional manipulators do not go with the tablets "I am a manipulator", so that we can immediately understand who we are dealing with. You have to learn from your own mistakes and listen to look at other people's experience to understand exactly how a manipulator gets what he wants in a relationship.
It is always hard to realize that you are the victim of a manipulator, especially, if the closest person is this manipulator. However, if you think about your childhood, school years and even friends, you probably will remember many cases of manipulation.
People use manipulation as a way to manage people, events and their own lives. It is like a self-defense mechanism. How can we recognize such situations? Here are some ways to find out, if your man is trying to manipulate you:
#1. He is trying to blame you in everything and absolutely denies the reality. Thus, he tries to become a victim and wants you to feel guilty.
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#2. He tries to threaten you. He uses this form of blackmail to get what he wants. He can say that he will leave you or something else.
#3. He abuses you. He can do this in many ways: emotionally, verbally, when you are alone or when there are people around.
#4. He tries to isolate you from your relatives and friends to make you not listen to their opinions. He wants you to listen only to him.
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#5. He uses money to manipulate you. Firstly, he offered financial support to you and then used this in his own benefits.
#6. He thinks that you should do privileges for him just because he is a man. In his opinion, men’s rights are more important than women’s.
#7. He can do very angry things just to punish you. He can behave badly with your favorite pet or with your close people.
#8. He uses your children to manipulate you. He knows that this will work, so he does not hesitate to use this trick.
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