If your boyfriend has a beard, it does not mean that he behaves like an adult man. He can look at the world through the eyes of a 15-year-old teenager and just not understand how to build relationships properly. What distinguishes a male child from a man?
If you constantly sit on Tinder, then you know exactly what qualities you are looking for in a guy. Nevertheless, it is difficult to say whether they behave like a boy or a man. Do not be fooled, we have compiled a list of qualities that are inherent in real gentlemen.
How do you know that you are meeting a true man, not an infantile guy? We decided to make a list of things that the powerful men of this world usually do. Check that this is typical of your new friend:
#1 He does not think about future
Men of this type are more interested in what will be for dinner than how you will live next week. They are not ready to plan ahead and very vaguely see their future. A rational person has a desire to develop a life strategy, set goals and achieve them, but for children and immature men, it's just not interesting, writes Ivona.bigmir.net.
#2 He does not clean up after himself
Yes, it is possible to get used to scattered socks all over the apartment, but when it is reaching the scale of a global catastrophe, know - there is a man-child in front of you. Do not try to justify his desire to sow chaos around himself with a "creative profession." People of this type do not change, and in the future you will have to educate both the husband and the child. Do you need it?
#3 He commits impulsive actions
He may buy the latest game console model to the detriment of your overall budget, go out with friends all night (while turning off the phone) or leave the prestigious job for no good reason. The fact is that his brain, like a child, is not able to assess the consequences of actions. If your lover first does, and then apologizes, then it characterizes him as an infantile person.
#4 He is close to his mother
This is normal, if a man respects his parents and maintains contact with his family, but if he is not able to make an independent decision - he is a male child. The wonderful relationship of your young man with his mother will bring you to the rank of second woman in his life. He will cancel his visits with you for family dinners, constantly borrow money from his parents and listen even to the most trivial advice.
#5 He's selfish in bed
If your man cares only about his pleasure and does not pay attention to your needs, then he has not grown up enough for a serious relationship. Sex is not just a physical act, it is also a spiritual union. Therefore, it is very important for both sides. If a man is self-centered in bed, then the emotional level of his maturity is very low in all areas.
#6 He avoids serious conversation
Communication is the key to solving many problems. If you raise an important question, and he jokes, changes the subject, plays on the phone or ignores you, it is a sign of his frivolity. The last thing a man-child wants is confrontation. Often it ends with your apologies or acceptance of his point of view.
#7 He communicates with an unreliable company
His friends are no better. He will easily exchange you for his friends, go with them to football or to "cut" on the console. A person who has not yet emerged from adolescence can not communicate with an adult woman. To get rid of the discomfort of intimacy with you, he escapes with friends. With them, a male child is easy and carefree.
#8 He does not want to hang out with your friends
A male child is always looking for a loophole in your relationship. He does not want to bind himself by the hands and feet, because in his life, there are so many adventures! And acquaintance with the family and friends of the girl is a big step, which confirms the seriousness of your intentions. It is difficult to have a thriving adult relationship with someone who is hovering in the clouds and dreaming of a free life. An adult who respects and loves you will respect people you love.
#8 He panics from talking about children
Your man is afraid to talk about living together, responsibilities and the budget, but talking children shocks him. What can I say, if he is not even ready to have a pet? Psychologists are sure that such behavior is atypical for a person who thinks about his future. Moreover, to talk is not to do. Every woman should feel the ground under her feet and know that her beloved man is moving with her in one direction.
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