In a normal, healthy relationship, the significant other always comes first, no matter what. That doesn’t mean that you don’t pay attention to anything else in your life. It just means that you always prioritize your partner when you make decisions. And it’s normal to expect the same in return. But, when your partner starts paying more attention to his phone than he does to you, it is absolutely normal to call them out on the issue.
#1. He is always late, never arrives on time
If he is always late to your dates, without any believable reason or prior notice, it is clear that he doesn't really care about you, and considers his time and personal issues more important than you.
#2. Special occasions? No biggie!
He does not prepare for any special occasion related to you, including your birthday. He makes you feel that, for him, that special day is just another normal day. If that’s the case, it is clear that you are not special to him. You are just another person he incidentally got to know.
#3. Feeling alone in the relationship
This is one of the most miserable feelings you can feel because of him, and is one of the biggest red flags you can get. In a normal, healthy relationship you might have bouts of loneliness sometimes, especially when he is away and you miss him, but if you are lonely while he is around, things are not as they should be.
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#4. Constant disappointment
Your partner is constantly letting you down, constantly disappointing you, never there when you most need him. It is clear that, for him, you are not a priority. So, why should he be a priority for you?
#5. No effort to make you happy
Happiness is not easy to come by, and attaining it is as much a matter of luck as it is a matter of your partner supporting and encouraging you to go for what makes you happy. If he doesn’t get this idea, he clearly has no intention of prioritizing you.
#6. Never time for you, but for anything else…
He is always busy with something else and always finds something else to do, but rarely has time to spend with you, doing something together. You are clearly not his first priority.
#7. No heated fights, not even small ones
In a healthy couple, where the partners care deeply about each other, fights happen. They lead to clarifying some aspect of the relationship, and then solving the problem together. But, if he does all he can to avoid fighting with you, even when you exaggerate just to get his attention, something’s not right. He probably does not care about you.
#8. Feeling constantly objectified
If you constantly feel like a doll, if you notice that all you are for your partner is a nice body, it only goes to show how highly your partner thinks about you. He doesn’t even entertain the idea that you might have your own wishes, emotions and needs.
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