Each person strives for one goal, which is to live a happy life. And the main reason why we are deprived of the opportunity to achieve this goal is within ourselves. We, ourselves, impose restrictions on our lives, subconsciously or consciously.
But it is remarkable that there are many ways to overcome these limitations. We sometimes feel bad, after we break up with our partner, not because we miss him, but because we don’t want to be lonely. What is bad about loneliness? Why shouldn’t we enjoy it?
These 9 tips can help you accept your loneliness and love it. You can’t be happy with anyone, if you are not happy by yourself.
#1. ENDORSING THE ENVIRONMENT
Who cares what other people think? If you can make decisions that make your life better, then who should it concern, except for you? Think about how much you could achieve, if you stopped allowing the point of view of strangers to dictate the style of your life? Do it your way, and this confidence will make your life better.
#2. THE HABITATION OF ANGER AND IRRITATION
Anger devours you from within. Try to learn, as soon as possible, how to control this destructive emotion and how to live in peace, calmly and happily with people who cause no irritation to you.
#3. COMPLEXES FOR EXTERNALITY
When it comes to appearance, the only person whose opinion you really have to consider is yourself. No one else has the right to impose ideas about an ideal body or an ideal figure, etc. If you are good at your weight, with your skin, your hair, if you are healthy - isn’t that all that matters, by and large?Do not let anyone convince you that you are ugly, because believing this, you will become ugly.
#4. DREAM OF THE PERFECT PARTNER
There is no ideal pair, so forget about all the requirements and points the future elect must meet. What prevents things from moving further, is the picture of an ideal partner that has firmly settled in the mind and does not allow you to see those who are already near and want to be part of your life
#5. IMMEDIATE PLAN OF LIFE
This is the same situation as the ideal companion. There is no ideal, there is only how you fill your days, month after month, year after year. And if you do not want to work hard and overcome difficulties, then, most likely, you will end up lamentably. Perfectionism is not always good.
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In fact, living happily means not having time to justify. Want to lose weight, but there is no time to work on the treadmill? Get up an hour early and run at the school stadium. Excuses are just a clever way to feel a little better, not having fulfilled the promised. Want results? Stop justifying yourself and doing what you want to do
#7. THOUGHTS ABOUT THE FORMER
This person has become "ex" due to certain reasons. When you think about it, think about an important lesson in the relationship and what it taught you. Do not try to ruminate in old feelings - this will bring your chances of personal happiness with someone else to naught!
#8. OLD OFFENCES
All of us have felt offended by a loved one. To transfer negative feelings into new relationships guarantees the catastrophe of these new relationships. There are no two identical people, so it is very unfair to hold the current partner to the "standards" of the former. Try to start everything from scratch.
#9. COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS
You are so unique and special. Just accept it. You have your own path and there is no need to compare.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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