Romantic relationship is a rather difficult and strange thing. One can never know how does love work and why one person is attractive for the opposite sex and another is not. Unfortunately, it’s impossible to make other people love us.
There are such situations when a girl falls in love, but he doesn’t pay any attention to her and doesn’t accept her feelings. Unfortunately, very often young ladies forget about their pride and start chasing this guy. It is a big mistake.
That’s why today we have prepared something special to you. We are suggesting you a list of reasons why you should never chase a man. Maybe this information will help you to understand your mistakes and start a new life. You should understand that he is not worthy of your tears and suffering.
#1 You are making yourself go insane
Firstly, you should understand that you will never attract this guy following him like a dog craving for his attention. If you do that, he will blow you off every time. Let’s face it, your brain and heart will suffer again and again, and it’s rather hard to manage it. That’s why chasing a man you are slowly making yourself go insane.
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#2 You are exhausting yourself
If you are afraid that he will find a girlfriend, follow him everywhere, and monitor his social media pages, you will become exhausted very soon. You’ll suffer from stress and anxiety all the time and will ultimately get tired.
#3 You are offering your soul to someone who doesn't deserve it
You are offering this guy all your love that comes from your heart. Refusing from it he just ruins your pure feelings and hurts your soul. It’s rather painful, and the more often he says you “no”, the more painful it is. It’s not good for your mental health and wellbeing.
#4 He doesn’t want to be caught
You should know that if you have to chase him, he just doesn’t want to be caught. When a guy wants to be with a girl, he will do everything possible to do it. However, if he doesn’t like you and doesn’t want to be with you, there is no need to chase him.
#5 Your career goes down the rabbit hole
As we have already mentioned above, chasing a guy takes a lot of time, effort and is really exhausting. That’s why it isn’t surprising that your career will go down the rabbit hole. You just won’t have any desire or strength to achieve new goals. Besides, running after him you are just wasting your time on a person who doesn’t simply deserve it but not on getting a better worker.
#6 Your self-esteem takes a brutal beating
The worst thing is that while you are chasing this guy, your self-esteem is getting ruined. It is not surprising, since when a person is being rejected all the time, their self-confidence and self-esteem are the first things that suffer all the time.
#7 You are missing out on all the great stuff
Running after this guy you don’t even notice that your own life is passing you by. You are just ruining you both for yourself and other romantic relationship. It might happen, that when you finally meet a really great guy who deserves you, you might not have any desire to start any romantic relationship at all.
#8 Paranoia becomes your friend
When a girl is chasing a guy, she always does her best to look and behave perfectly. That’s why it is not surprising, that constant thoughts about what he will think about you and constant anxiety will make you become paranoid.
#9 You have become a stalker
When a girl starts chasing a guy, she wants to know everything about him: what daily schedule he has, where he lives, what café he goes to every Friday, and so on. She literally becomes a stalker. She forgets about her own life and close people. Such behavior pushes him away and makes everything even worse.
#10 Do you really have him when you catch him?
There are cases when chasing brings desirable results and a woman finally gets a man of her dreams. However, it is not what it looks like. You might realize that this man is much worse than you thought. He doesn’t deserve you, otherwise he would have never made you grovel and chase him.
#11 The things you are dreaming about are not necessarily good for you
It means that not always something we desire to get is good for us. Very often people crave for things that are harmful for them. Somebody dreams about junk food or cigarette, but it doesn’t mean that these things are good for you. This case is not an exception. You should understand that a man you are chasing isn’t necessarily good for you.
#12 It's important to be happy even being alone
In the majority of cases when a woman chases a man, she is used to think that her happiness and well-being depends on being with this particular person. It means that she is dependent on other people and is unable to find happiness in her own self.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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