Today we want to talk about something that’s not so pleasant. We want to discuss cheating with you. Not even cheating, but cheaters.
Surprisingly, many people, who have been cheated on, were blind to what was happening. Sometimes they even learned about the infidelity of a spouse from third parties.
Why does this happen? It's hard to say, but too much love for a person, as well as too little attention, can make us blind. According to psychologists, there are signs that inevitably open your eyes to the real state of relations. Here they are.
#1. The emergence of new habits
If your spouse never had a desire to write messages, and then suddenly it became a real habit, this is an occasion to reflect. Especially when he writes them in an unusual manner or at an unusual time. Naturally, such things as hiding the correspondence or sitting over it until late at night also lead to consideration, writes Medikforum.ru.
#2. Sudden interest in new music and other things
Musical taste can change over the years, and this is normal, but its cardinal change is not without reason. If a person who has always listened to chanson, begins to be interested in the waltz "Green sleeves," it may seem suspicious. At the same time, if there’s a shift and they don’t want you to be a part of it, it means something.
#3. Change of image
Usually mature people find their way and stick to it for years. The fact that after 40 years, a husband or wife decided to radically change, can be a sign of betrayal. With women, this observation works less often, because they need fewer reasons to clip / grow / color their hair, but still ...
#4. Delays at work and stash
Again, let's say, for the sake of justice, that this can be peculiar to both women and men. Justifications like "the head detained me" - are almost textbook in the alphabet of treason. The same goes for money. But that tends to happen more with men, because a new passion needs something to "water, feed and dance," right?
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#5. Mood Races
Sometimes hot, sometimes cold. Sometimes your second half flies on the wings of happiness and looks serene, then walks darker than the clouds, then worries and twitches. Almost any traitor knows the feeling of guilt, which eats from within and makes you behave like a powder keg.
#6. Character alteration
You suddenly notice that your spouse has become a completely different person. For example, a previous couch potato suddenly becomes a gym rat. Or, the weekend, which was a time for two, suddenly turns into his or her private property. It's hard not to notice.
This may overlap with other items, but the loss of confidence is much more serious than the work delays and the new haircut. Honesty is the basis of relationships. An honest man has nothing to hide and no need to lie. So here it is necessary to act immediately in hot pursuit. It will be easier for both of you.
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