No matter if you’ve been in love with him for a while, or you’ve just met last week, you probably want to hold on to him for as long as possible. Contrary to what you might think, it’s not the grand gestures that make a happy relationship. It’s the small, yet powerful things that you do which melt a guy’s heart.
#1. Cook for him
You’ve probably heard the saying “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” It might not be as true today as it was 100 years ago, but cooking is still a useful skill for a woman to have. Sharing a home-cooked meal can be as intimate as a kiss. Add a few candles and flowers and you’ve got a romantic rendezvous.
#2. Wear lingerie
Wearing naughty lingerie is a way to spice up your sex life, but it also shows him that you’re open to new experiences. After all, an active and “creative” sex life is very important to keeping a relationship healthy.
#3. Be confident, not desperate
Avoid looking clingy at all costs. It’s a serious turnoff and a red flag for any man to stay away from you. Confidence, on the other hand is very attractive. So, instead of following him around like a puppy, be yourself and let him come to you.
#4. Give him space
This is the way to avoid looking clingy. Each of you has their own life, so let him live his as he pleases. If you do, he will feel more comfortable around you and will appreciate you for your confidence and independence. Trust him instead of turning into his mom.
#5. Appreciate him
Love him for who he is and praise him from time to time. Let him know that you value him and what he does for you or for others. Don’t nag or criticize.
#6. Know his friends and family
The more you know his friends and family, the more you become part of his circle. He will love you more for it, while his family and friends will appreciate your openness.
#7. Make him laugh out loud
Guys like to have fun, so a good sense of humor is a very attractive feature for a woman to have. Tell a few jokes, spread joy, and he will want to spend more time in your company.
#8. Learn to forgive
One of the worst mistakes women make is to hold grudges. Fighting is normal in any relationship, as long as you don’t drag the disagreement out for ages. Learn to forgive and forget, by accepting the fact that your guy is human too. Nobody’s perfect, not even you.
#9. Know his interests
This is important for 2 reasons. The first is that he will appreciate you taking an interest in his passions and wanting to know him better. The second is that you’ll have more things do together and even more things to talk about.
#10. Respect him
This includes respecting his choices, his beliefs, his values and his needs/wants. Don’t try to replace all these things with your own ideals, because that’s not love. Loving him means accepting him as he is and allowing him to be himself. A man who feels disrespected in a relationship will not stick around for long.
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