Where is the line between friendly and flirty? Sometimes it’s a bit hard to see and that’s when things can get confusing. If you like a guy, you’re more willing to convince yourself that he’s flirting with you. If you’re wrong, it can lead to an embarrassing encounter. You want to be sure he’s flirting before making any moves.
If you notice these 13 signs, then he’s definitely flirting with you:
#1. Special Treatment
We all know there are guys who seem to flirt with just about anyone in sight. If the guy you’re into makes a clear distinction between the way he acts with you and other women, then he’s definitely interested in flirting with you.
#2. Detailed Memory
Making an effort to remember all the details of what you share with him is making the point that he likes you.
#3. That Smile
There’s a special smile reserved for the people we have romantic feelings for, you know which one I mean. If you see that your guy smiles with just a little bit of shyness when you make eye contact, he’s flirting.
#4. Learns Your Status
When he tries to find out all the details of your romantic life, especially whether you’re single or not, it’s a bright sign that he wants to take his flirting to a higher level.
#5. Subtle Touching
Without fully expressing how he feels, he’ll playfully touch you and bring you closer to him. This means he’s totally into you and ready to flirt.
#6. Body Tells All
Flirting is as much nonverbal as it is verbal. If his body is leaned towards you and moves closer and closer, he’s making his move.
#7. Anxious Appearance
Being flustered is something he might try to avoid, but won’t be able to when he tries to flirt with you. It means that he’s anxious about what to do and say to make you like him.
#8. Nervous Tics
His hands just don’t seem to know where to go or what to do. He might play with his buttons or zipper, or shove them in his pockets to keep them out of sight. These nervous tics reflect his fast heart rate when he’s talking to you.
#9. Works to Impress
Guys flirt by trying to impress you. So if he’s sharing stories about his greatest successes, it means he wants you to find things to like about him.
#10. Earns Your Laughter
A guy’s favorite way to see you is with a smile on your face and laughing. So when he flirts, he’ll use jokes to bring you happiness.
#11. Silly Games
Remember how the boys who liked you in elementary school used to tease you? Well guys play in that way, as well. He might give you nicknames or tease you about little things, but all in a sweet way of course.
#12. Points Out Your Strengths
Compliments are the simplest way for a guy to let you know that he’s flirting. In the beginning, they may start with your physical appearance, but as time passes, they will start complimenting all the things they like about you.
While flirting, there is always a feeling of magic in the air. If you feel butterflies in your stomach while you talk to him, then chances are romantic feelings exist between you.
If you notice any of these signs when you’re talking to a guy, know that he’s flirting and that he’ll be open to your advances.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
You can help us spread this love by sharing this with those around you and letting us know what you think in the comments below.