Living on the surface level is simply unfulfilling for many women. These are the ones who may be described as ‘deep.’ Sometimes deep women are misunderstood because people think that they take things too seriously, but that’s not the case at all. Being deep is something that comes naturally and leads a person to think more about their own being and the behaviors of others. Deep women are often able to love even more strongly so why is it that some men avoid them?

There are 9 challenges that men face when they’re with deep women:

#1. Dealing with total transparency

Deep women are brutally honest, and there is no way around it. Whether they’re discussing their opinions or giving advice, they will not compromise their stance to please anyone else. Men can find this very intimidating.

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#2. Nothing gets past her

Though not all men want to fool you, there are some who prefer to be a little more manipulative in their relationships. This is not possible when a deep woman is involved. The normal games aren’t tolerated and any attempts at manipulation fail because the woman sees the true intentions behind the man’s actions.

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#3. Wants serious things

Relationships are not merely for fun when it comes to deep women. They want to know that there is a purpose in the energy they put into their love union and are often interested in moving towards commitment. Some men simply are not ready to deal with this level of connection.

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#4. Very high standards

A deep woman will not date just anyone. Due to the work and reflection she’s put into herself and her life, she is looking for someone who is willing to meet her at the same level and engage in a mature way. Men feel that they have to meet a very high bar when it comes to pleasing a deep woman and this can scare them off.

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#5. Intensity is real

Shallow ways of living aren’t the forte of deep women and they choose intensity in all aspects of their life. When they do something, they put themselves into it and that reflects in their energy. If a man isn’t ready to put all of himself into something, he will not be a good match for a deep woman.

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#6. Full blown intimacy

It takes a lot of work to know yourself and to allow yourself to feel and work with different emotions, and deep women have spent a lot of time doing that work. Rather than shying away from true intimacy, deep women seek it out at all turns in their lives. Intimacy is rewarding, but can feel uncomfortable and some men can’t hack it.

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#7. Constant passion

Passion makes life interesting and beautiful and deep women make a point to put it into everything they do. They do not find intrigue in doing things that don’t require or involve passion. If a man is not passionate about something, he will not be able to connect with a deep woman.

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#8. Lack of patience

A man who wants to share his life with a deep woman will need to be grounded and able to take care of himself. Deep women do not have the patience to drag a man along if he is not mature enough to walk next to her.

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#9. Asks the tough questions

If a weak man finds himself face to face with a deep woman, he will likely be frozen by the questions she asks him. Deep women do not waste their time on small talk, but move right to the heavy stuff.

If you’re a deep woman, there’s no reason to change anything about yourself. While some men may find being with you challenging, there are plenty of men who can rise to meet you where you are.

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