How to capture a man’s heart is one of the most important things any woman should learn. If they lose interest, men tend to stray, and you’ll end up lonely, bitter and disappointed. It does not take much effort on your part to make a big difference in your relationship. Read on to find out how.
#1. Become the best version you could be
Nobody is or can ever become perfect. And anyway, it is our “rough edges” that give us our personality, our character. That’s what other people like about you. But there’s a big difference between endearing traits and repulsive or obnoxious traits.
Getting rid of your bad traits or habits is relatively straightforward. In a nutshell, you need to get to know yourself, accept yourself and respect yourself. This includes picking up some good habits, like a healthy diet and daily exercise. And don’t forget that there are certain traits you will never be able to change, but that you can learn to manage in a healthy way.
#2. Understand how men truly think
An important aspect, which women should never forget, is that men are as they are and will not change themselves to suit any woman. The fools who try that end up miserable and alone. Men play by certain rules, while women play by others. That’s just the way things work.
- Men will often not be completely honest about what they want, because they are afraid they will be judged.
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- They hate drama and the women generating it, because they think those women are doing it out of boredom.
- Men like having sex with women who accept them for who they really are and are genuinely turned on by them, not just faking interest.
- Also, men need their space to do things by themselves, be it going out with their friends or just building something in the garage.
- Men like taking the lead in a relationship, but understand that sometimes women need to take charge.
- Men like confident women and long to be as confident as them.
#3. Find out what he likes and do it
He is probably already doing this for you. Relationships are about reciprocating. Make a man feel that he’s getting things, and he will be more than willing to give back. They like the small things you do for them and will always remember that you did them. It can be something as simple as bringing them a cup of tea or coffee when they need it most, or giving them a gentle head massage after a hard day at work, or baking their favorite dish at your home and bring it over to their home to eat it together, or suggesting a movie you know they like for the next lazy night in. The basic idea is to make them feel that you like doing things for them and with them.
#4. Sometimes, take the lead
Men are better at certain things, women are better at other things. People believe that a man should take the lead in a relationship. But don’t be afraid to take over sometimes, to show him that you can contribute, that you can pull your weight when necessary. You can figure out the right moment by simply asking yourself “How can I do things better for both of us?”
#5. Connect with him at an intimate level
The average man’s sex drive is much stronger than the average woman’s. And his sexual needs are something that you can use to your advantage. You just need to understand some basic facts.
- One is that men like it if their sexual needs are satisfied fairly regularly.
- Another is that your aspect is important to a man, but it is not the only important thing.
- Yet another is that, if you can meet his sexual desires and manage to be enthusiastic about bringing to life their sexual fantasies, they will never ever leave. And why would they?
The important thing is to make them open up to you about their sexual desires and fantasies. They will not only feel they can trust you, but this will also strengthen your emotional bond, a very important thing in the long run.
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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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