Everyone has feelings and thoughts, men and women alike. There are things that people keep inside them because they’re too shy to share them, but that doesn’t mean that these things aren’t important. If you notice that your guy seems like he wants to talk, but never says it all, he’s probably holding a few things back.
Here are 10 things men want women to know, but don’t know how to say:
#1. He’s scared too
Everyone gets scared sometimes, men are no different than women in that regard. Although your guy probably tries to make you feel like he’s never scared and always confident, the truth is that he experiences fear, as well. Pay attention to his mood and be there for him if he gets scared.
#2. Not all the answers
Your guy just doesn’t know what to do at all times. You may trust him so much that whenever you run into a problem, the first place you go for answers is him. He loves that, but sometimes he doesn’t know how to help you.
#3. Boys do cry
Guys cry as well, ladies. Maybe he hides it from you and that’s why you haven’t seen him crying, but he definitely does. Do what you can to make him feel comfortable enough to share all his feelings and let go of his tears in front of you.
#4. Body blues
You know how every time you look in the mirror you notice something you don’t like? Men have the same experience! We women tend to use up all the body insecurity energy in our relationships, but the reality is that your guy has his own self-doubt to deal with.
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#5. Cares what you think
Don’t let his cool guy act fool you. Your guy really cares what you think of him and wants to make the best impression on you at all times. Let him know that you appreciate him for who he is and the things he does.
#6. Questions parenting
If your guy has children, then be sure that he spends time wondering if he’s being the father they deserve. Dads usually get the reputation of being more carefree than Moms, but it’s not true at all. They want to make sure that they are doing what is right for their kids.
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#7. Worries about providing
When you’re in a long-term relationship, responsibilities become shared. Your guy spends more time than you know thinking about how he can provide for you in more and better ways. Appreciate how he takes care of you and let him know it’s enough.
#8. Wants hugs
All men want and need affection just as much as women do. While you’re waiting for your guy to come give you a hug, you could have gone and give him one! Be the first one to make the move to hug sometimes so that your guy feels special.
He knows how beautiful you are, which is why he can get jealous when he says other men looking at you. Try not to get defensive about this reaction because it’s part of his way of expressing the fact that he wants you all to himself.
#10. Wants children
When you’ve been together for a long time, chances are your guy has imagined having children with you. Even if you are not at the point of your relationship or lives, the thought alone brings him joy.
In a nutshell, men have a lot of the same thoughts and feelings as women when it comes to love!
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