Dating is difficult and sometimes you can find yourself in a situation with a guy that feels puzzling and unnatural. Many times this is because the chemistry just isn’t there and the guy isn’t into you. It’s helpful to be able to tell when this is the case so that you don’t waste too much of your time with the wrong person.
Watch for these 5 hints that he’s just not into you:
#1. Shows no interest in your life
When you’re trying to build a relationship with someone, it’s important to learn about different aspects of the person and their lives. If the guy you’re seeing doesn’t seem to ask you any questions about your life and interests, he’s probably not that into the bond. Pay attention to how well he’s really listening when you’re talking.
#2. Doesn’t share
Building a union involves a lot of sharing from both people. To really develop deep feelings, you need to know things about the other person. If your guy isn’t opening up and sharing things about himself, he might not see long-term potential in the relationship you have.
#3. Long gaps between dates
It’s normal to wait a couple of days for a guy to ask you on the next date, but when a lot of time passes and he still hasn’t called, you need to ask yourself why. Are you the only one expressing interest in your next meeting? It might be time to move on.
#4. Lots of excuses
Everyone has a lot of things to do in life, but when you’re into someone, you make time for them. If he blows you off all the time and makes excuses about stress and work, he’s trying to send the message that it’s not working for him.
#5. Hard to read
The simple truth is that if a guy likes you, you’ll know. The anticipation of what will come next will give your guy’s energy away. If you feel like you can’t tell whether he likes you, then he probably doesn’t have very strong feelings for you.
Don’t take it personally when a guy isn’t into you. There’s someone out there for everyone!
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