It can feel impossible to know if a man is flirting or simply using you to pass the time. Instead of playing a guessing-game, take control of your understanding and pay attention to the guy’s behavior. There are 5 body hints that tell you he’s flirting with you:

#1. His Posture

The way someone positions their body and stands when they’re near you can tell you about how they feel for you. If the guy you’re talking to stands with his legs open and has his whole body towards you, then he is interested.

#2. Talking Style

Notice how he talks to you while you’re engaged in conversation. Is he distracted or focused on giving you his full attention? If he holds your eye contact while you converse, he wants to get to a deeper level.

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#3. Checks You Out

How is he looking at you? Showing a lot of interest in what you look like and how you’re dressed, is a good indication that he’s interested in coming closer to you.

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#4. Look at His Hands

Hands can feel like awkward parts of the body that are just in the way when talking with someone. If the guy you’re into is moving his hands around a lot and trying to find something to do with them, then he’s probably nervous about the way he’s presenting himself to you. Another clear sign that he’s flirting is if he holds your hands!

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#5. Overall Treatment

How does he behave around other people? It’s easy to be nice and loving when you’re alone with someone, but the presence of others can create the social need to fit in. If you see that he changes the way he treats you when other people are near, he might feel too shy to flirt in public, but it doesn’t mean he’s not into you.

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Look for deeper indications like his body language. Guys can be confusing and sometimes they have conflicting feelings just like women. These 5 signs can help you understand if he’s flirting with you.

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