We all know that women usually have an uncanny capacity of sensing or figuring out what their partner is thinking. So, if you suspect your man is thinking about marrying you, you are probably right. But, when it comes to commitment, some men are hard to read.
If you are dying to find out what his intentions are, but you don’t want to ask him because you don’t want to make him feel pressured, or if you just want to find out how he sees you in his mind, look out for these eight signs.
#1. Ready and willing to invest in your future
Whether he’s offered to help you pay off your debt, or pay for your higher education, or just buy a car with you, the fact that he is ready to make long-term investments with or for you shows that he is ready to stick around for longer.
#2. Planning a vacation together
It does not matter if the vacation he is planning is just for you and him, or for you, him and his family/friends. He wants to spend some quality time with you, away from your normal circles, either to impress you or to give you a chance to know him better. Either way, it is a good sign.
#3. Making a real effort for better communication
There is bound to be friction when the partners are in the process of getting to know each other and to adapt to each other’s quirks. The important thing to notice is how he is handling this process. Is he willing to meet you halfway and reach a common path, or is he holding his own and expecting you to do all the adapting? If he works with you to reach a common path, he is in for the long haul.
#4. Still wanting more of you
If he can’t get enough of you, inviting you over every night, or asking you to consider moving in together, he is most likely in love with you and is already thinking about the possibility of marriage. This is especially true if he still behaves like this after six months of being together.
#5. Introducing you to everybody who’s important to him
An almost sure sign that marriage is on his mind is the fact that he starts introducing you to his “inner circle” – his friends, his more important coworkers, and, generally, to people who are important to him. A man only does this if he considers there is a future together with you.
#6. Meeting the parents
Although men are fairly fickle about this, no matter when it happens, meeting his parents is always a sign that he has something more important and enduring in mind than just a summer of fun together.
#7. Talking about children
Ok, if he brings this theme up on your first date, that is a bit creepy. But if you’ve been together for a while, and he can’t stop talking about how much he would like to be a dad, or how good of a mother you would make, it is clear that there is an image of the two of you as a family in his mind.
#8. Opening up to you completely
Men are notoriously hesitant in showing their more vulnerable side to just anyone. If you notice that he starts sharing his most secret, embarrassing or awkward memories with you, he is opening up to you. That is a very good thing, because men only do this with someone they intend to spend more time with.
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