The choice of a life partner is one of the most important stages in a woman's life. It is believed that in an ideal marriage should be based on feelings, but, as practice shows, at the stage of choice, it is not superfluous to connect the mind. This will minimize the risk of error.
After all, we all set a goal to get married once and live together with the chosen one a happy long life, but not everyone succeeds. Sometimes the negative development of future events could be predicted even at the stage of the origin of relations, if in time to reflect, analyze …
Check out 13 common mistakes women can make when choosing a husband and never make them ever again!
#1 Searching without a purpose
Decide why you need a husband. To give birth and raise a child? Solve the housing issue? Get out of hated work, hiding behind a reliable man's shoulder? To have a number of friends and partners? So that there was someone to fix the leaking faucet?
#2. Lack of characteristic you are searching in man
Supplement the list of qualities of the future partner with those properties that you really appreciate in men. Here can and should be not only psychological properties, but also requirements for appearance, origin, profession and so on. It is recommended that you do this in writing.
When we are fixated on marriage, we frantically peer at each man. What if it's him? And what kind of children would we have? Will my name go to me? It's like paranoia.
#4. Wrong place to search
Everyone knows that in order to catch fish, you need to go to the river. And if we need a forest berry, then we need to look for it in the forest. But for some reason, when we are looking for a husband, this principle is forgotten. Very many of the girls I know look for a caring, responsible, sensitive man who could become a good husband and father. And it's cool! But where do they look? At discos, in bars, at parties.
That is, a woman needs to communicate with several men at the same time, not focusing on one.
But it is important to understand that to communicate is to communicate, and here there is no place for the word "sex". That is, a woman can and should take courtship of several men. She can flirt, socialize, go to the movies, libraries, exhibitions with different men.
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#6.To be in rush
With marriage, you can not hurry. I know very happy marriages, which were concluded very quickly. But most hasty unions have different outcomes. We have nowhere to hurry.
#7. Falling in love immediately
Evaluation of a possible candidate for husbands. Even if the man completely corresponds to the portrait you compiled, it is not a fact that you will be a good couple with him. The successful coexistence of two people provides for a unity of intellectual and emotional level, moral values and global life priorities, compatibility of habits and temperaments.
#8. Lack of respect for yourself
Remember yourself, your spiritual development, support your body and appearance in the proper way. Over time, there is a sense of habit, capable, like rust, to "eat" even the most ardent love and negate the best choice. Continuous development, improvement - that's what, along with feelings and common goals, will allow to keep interest and mutual respect for each other for many years.
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