All women dream about their marriage. We all want to find a special man, fall in love with him, and become his wife. However, very often, everything is much more complicated than we expect.
There are many cases when a woman is in love with her man, and everything is perfect. It seems that it’s time to make the next step. However, she is waiting for a long time, and nothing happens.
You shouldn’t be upset. Men are usually afraid of duties and responsibilities, it’s OK. However, you can solve this problem. Today, we have prepared something special for you. Here are the most effective ways to get your man to propose. Try them and you won’t wait long for the result!
#1 Make sure that he is ready for this step
Very often men are just not ready for the marriage. There is nothing surprising since it’s a very significant step. That’s why you should talk to him and explain that there is nothing to be worried about, that it’s very important for you. If you have been together for a long time, let him understand that nothing will change in your relationship. However, remember to avoid any pressure.
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#2 Make sure that it’s the right time in his life
You shouldn’t be selfish and think only about your desire to marry him. You shouldn’t make him marry you, if he is going through some difficulties. For example, there may be some financial problems, he may be working on his career or something like that. Just be attentive, patient, supportive and try to help him.
#3 Drop some hints
If you understand that nothing stops him from proposing you, you can try to help him make this step. You shouldn’t tell him it directly since it will be a kind of pressure. You can tell him about your friend who is going to marry, show him a restaurant mentioning that it’s perfect for weddings or something like that. Only if he doesn’t get your hints, you can ask him directly.
#4 Talk about the future
You can start talking about your future. However, you should do it very carefully. For example, when you watch some movie together, ask him what he thinks you’ll both look like in your 70’s. If he joins the conversation, you can continue.
You can talk about your future house, a dog, a cozy garden, and what you would do if you were married. You’ll see his reaction and whether he is ready to this step. Be extremely careful in order not to frighten him.
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#5 Mention that you don’t want everything to be expensive
Very often men are frightened by the amount of money they will have to spend on the ring and on the wedding. They want to make us happy and provide us with everything we need. That’s why you should make your loved one understand that you don’t need everything to be expensive and luxury. Explain that you want him but not his money and a beautiful picture of expensive wedding.
#6 Show him that you will be a good wife
To persuade him that it’s time for the marriage you should also show him that you will be a good wife and mother for his children. You should not only be independent and strong, you should cook for him and take care of him, when he is sick. He has to understand that you are the person he can trust to and rely on.
#7 Take care of yourself
It doesn’t mean that you should wear fashionable clothes and bright makeup every day. It means that you should eat healthy foods, exercise, do the things you enjoy, and be able to say no when you don’t want or don’t like something. He has to see your inner self. He will be attracted by your confidence and independence.
#8 Listen to his fears
You should be someone he can rely on. That’s why talking about your plans for future and wedding you should accept his points of view, listen to him very carefully, support him, and help him manage his fears and emotions.
#9 No pressure
You should never put any pressure on him. He has to become ready to this step. That’s why you should not only be careful and delicate, but you also tell all your friends and relatives not to mention marriage at all. The pressure will only frighten and push him away.
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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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