Marriage, like any other relationship, is never perfect. Even the best of marriages have their problems. Most experts agree that the key to a successful marriage is hard work, commitment and constant reassessment of our expectations and communication.

It seems easy enough, but in fact, it's easier said than done. People who used to claim love each other start taking each other for granted and eventually end up breaking up.

Today we want to share 9 reasons leading to an unhappy marriage. We hope that your marriage remains happy forever and you never forget about the love that you had from the very start.

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#1. Trying to change a partner

Perhaps one of the most serious problems that couples face. Spouses so often try to change the satellite and make from it what they would like more. Those qualities that the partner had in the beginning of relations and which were nice, now in turn cause a lot of indignation and contempt. If you are married to a slob, they will not automatically turn into a neat person, just because you want them to become that way. The only person you can change is yourself. The best thing you can do is change your attitude.

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#2. Conversation is not communication.

The most common misconception that threatens marriage is that couples mistakenly believe that speaking means communicating, that is, when they enter into a conversation, they communicate. Expressing their discontent and desire, not taking into account the opinion of a partner, does not mean communicating, exchanging thoughts. To listen is not to hear. To learn how to express your feelings is vital, and not from the point of complaint and criticism. This will help protect your marriage at a later stage. Communication means that you are ready to hear the partner's point of view, understand or at least try.

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#3. Properly distribute your time.

The modern way of life is very stressful. Time is essential in building relationships, but many couples manage their time inefficiently. Couples are drawn to all spheres of modern life day after day, but not to each other, eventually succeeding everywhere, except their own family. Time, even if it's only five minutes a day, is an important requirement of marriage. Couples need to regularly reassess their relationship very carefully.

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#4. Intimate Relationships

The lack of intimacy in relationships is a serious problem inmarriages. Sex is only a small part of intimacy. Intimacy is the interaction of two people as a couple. Remain bound at every level: spiritual, mental, physical and emotional. Most couples are constantly confronted with the problem of preserving that original spark. Intimate closeness is not the goal to which the couple should strive, but rather a journey that lasts throughout the marriage.

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#5. Attention please

It seems to men that the attention of the wife is switched when the children appear. This often leads to the husband feeling incomplete, which, in turn, leads to a lack of intimacy. Couples also allow technology to interfere with their relationship, instead of sharing a dinner they communicate by phone, exchange sms, instead of evening conversations - they sit on the Internet. As a result, attention is lost to each other. Sitting next to each other while constantly on gadgets is a waste of time.

#6. Money

Money is a huge problem in marriage. Marriages can often survive betrayal, but money issues can destroy the marriage forever. This issue is not uncommon in Muslim families. In families where both earn, there may be resentment and misunderstanding due to income inequality. This often leads to unhealthy competition.

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#7. Forgiveness

Learn to forgive. Unwillingness to forgive for minor misconducts can negatively affect the relationship. Most of the problems in marriage arise as a result of partners' unwillingness to forgive each other. In married life, forgiveness must be unconditional.

#8 . Underestimation

When you underestimate a partner, conflicts are predictable. The lack of valuation is often the cause of unfaithfulness in marriage. Couples should accept their partner as they are.

#9 . Emotional side

The growth of the emotional aspect is observed with the development of technology. Often, partners share their emotions not with their companion, but with friends in social networks, blogs, etc. It is important to remember that the division of one's emotions and feelings only unites and strengthens relations by associating partners with confidential ties.

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