Building relationship is not easy. Psychologists say it is hard work. Sometimes it seems that this is a trifle, but in the end it is the reason that puts a fat point in the love story. What things destroy relationship and how to avoid them?

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Often in the relationship between a man and a woman there is a gap in the size of an abyss. It is no matter how one of the parties tries to reduce this gap, it only increases. Usually both sides are guilty, but if we take into account the male side, then the man should look for reasons in himself in the first place.

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Men try to balance between their desire to be sensual and the need to be strong. Sometimes they make mistakes that hurt their wives and destroy their families. Let’s look through eight most common ways men destroy their marriage:

#1. Not caring about what makes your woman insecure. Women always notice the smallest details and can become insecure very often. If a man is looking at another woman, if he makes her feel insecure, this can destroy any marriage.

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#2. Underestimating the importance of small gestures. If a man often forgets to make such small gestures like giving flowers or candies, or just to say compliments, this can be destructive.

#3. Letting anger get the best of you. Men often close inside when they have some problems. At this case woman start feeling that their man does not rely on them or does not want their help.

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#4. Not taking responsibility for your actions and being a man. Every man should take responsibility for his words and actions. This is one of the features of being a man.

#5. Going for someone who is not compatible with you or not ready for marriage. Never rush. A woman near a man should match all his beliefs. She should share his life views.

#6. The silent treatment. This is a very common problem in a marriage. If a man is in fight with his wife, he does not discuss anything, he just starts being silent.

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#7. Being judgmental and always trying to fix her. Men can often force women and try them to make solutions that they want. This is always destructive.

#8. Never saying 'I am sorry'. If a man is guilty in something, he should apologize. Often many men think that they are always right and can offend their woman.

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