The game of love can be challenging, but there are some ways that you can increase your attractiveness without trying too hard. Instead of focusing your energy on what you’re looking for, focus on what you can control, yourself!

These 30 traits make you really attractive:

#1 Choosing Happiness

It’s up to you to choose your mood each day and when you’re someone who chooses to smile as much as possible, that is attractive to others. Life is not perfect and there are times when you’ll face difficulties, but keeping a smile on your face is always the best choice.

#2 Confidence in Yourself

Having insecurities is normal, but there’s no need to let them rule your life. Be confident in yourself and let that shine through. Even on days when you’re feeling down, your confidence will boost your attractiveness.

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#3 Healthy Habits

When you take care of yourself with a reasonable diet and exercise, your self-care and healthy habits shine through your eyes and skin.

#4 Kindness

Make your choice to be kind rather than mean to all people you interact with. Your warm heart makes you more beautiful.

#5 Using Humor

Making jokes and encouraging laughter is one of the most attractive things you can do. It will also keep you in good spirits.

#6 Sociable

It’s good to enjoy time at home, of course, but be willing to mingle and hang out with friends. Going out and having a good time makes you super attractive.

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#7 Own Your Intelligence

Don’t believe the false rumors! Men do not like women who play dumb. Be proud of your intelligence and never try to hide it.

#8 Care About Your Look

Know your body and your style and own it. Dressing well doesn’t mean sticking with what’s in season, it means dressing for who you are.

#9 Feeling Generous

Sharing is caring, seriously. When you’re generous, people are automatically more drawn to you.

#10 Be You

Take time to sit with yourself and think about who you are, what the means to you, and why you love yourself.

#11 Seek Adventure

Life only happens once so get out and enjoy it. Being adventurous shows that you’re passionate and ready to embrace life.

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#12 Foster Bravery

There are many things to fear in the world, but that doesn’t mean that you need to give in to them all. Be brave and keep moving.

#13 Hone Your Cooking Skills

Everyone loves a good home cooked meal or a sweet baked from scratch. Practice a few signature recipes to keep under your belt.

#14 Practice Real Interest

Be the type of person that makes people feel listened to and understand. When someone feels that you’re interested in them, they will be attracted immediately.

#15 Have Things to Talk About

Don’t let yourself become a boring conversation mate. Read and discover new things daily so that you always have something to share.

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#16 Open Yourself

Try not to close your heart off to all the possibilities around you. Be open to conversation and interaction and people will want to be around you.

#17 Keep it Real

Invest your time in a deep practice of honesty. Lying is a complete turn off. Don’t be scared to speak the truth in all situations.

#18 Support System

Have the ability to be the person someone leans on when in need. That way you’ll have a friend when you’re in need, as well.

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#19 Put in Effort

Don’t be lazy. Make the effort to talk to family, friends, and acquaintances. You never know who will find you attractive.

#20 Give Compliments

Don’t hold your good thoughts inside of you, share them with the world. If you see something you like about someone, tell them!

#21 No Snobiness

Don’t put yourself on a pedestal. We’re all human beings and staying relatable is the most attractive way to be.

#22 Check Your Bossiness at the Door

Who put you in charge? People are attracted to those who want to work together, not those who think they deserve control.

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#23 Minimal Complaining

It simply drains the energy out of people and the air around you. Just choose to look at the positives of any given situation.

#24 Forget the Scale

Your weight does not define you and it’s not interesting as a topic of conversation with other people.

#25 Exes are for the Past

If you’re trying to attract another person, don’t make the mistake of allowing your exes to be a topic of discussion.

#26 Limit Drinking

You can let loose and have fun, of course, but try to limit your drinking while you’re out on a date. It impairs your state of mind and can blur your connection.

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#27 Why So Serious?

Life is short and meant to be enjoyed. Make sure you’re not taking yourself too seriously. Lighten up and laugh at your mistakes.

#28 Ease Up

It’s always good to make an effort, but trying too hard is evident and only makes you look desperate.

#29 Low Maintenance

Don’t be too high strung to try new things and have different experiences. You never know what you might learn.

#30 Relax Your Mind

You’re only in control of your reactions. Don’t overthink things. Go with the flow and enjoy time as it passes.

Being attractive is much more about your state of mind than anything physical.

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