According to statistics, about a quarter of all people have a tendency to be pathological liars, and most of these people are men. Such a human pathology is explained by the fact that the balance of gray matter volumes is broken: neurons, in the cerebral cortex. Also, the balance of white matter volumes is broken: nerve fibers that connect the parts of the human brain itself. This substance is responsible for such human concepts as shame, morality and a sense of repentance.
Experts say that people who, in their childhood, suffered greatly from a lack of love and cruel criticism from adults are pathological liars most often. Once in the childhood such a person resisted the realities of life, and the fragile psyche created an imaginary and illusory world for himself.
Of course, it is difficult both in communication and in life in general with such liars. What should you do if you know that a man near you is a liar? Is it better to try to solve the problem or to run away from such person? Let’s try to find out:
#1. Use hard evidence to deal with liars. The best way is to confront these people. Find evidence and be ready to use them at the right moment.
#2. Present your findings. However, you should be very tactful, or the effect of this action can be absolutely reverse. Every person deserves the second chance. If he is dear to you, be ready for this.
#3. Understand the reasons. Listen to his explanation and try to understand the reasons for his actions. However, there can be two situations: he will apologize or he will lie more to stop the conversation.
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#4. Try out a pact. Ask him to be sincere, tell that this is the only way out of the situation. However, do not believe that he will change in one day.
#5. Understand that nobody can simply change another person. This is not easy, but you made a great step in dealing with this unpleasant problem. People can change, but not everybody and this is not your fault.
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