Every woman dreams about having strong and happy romantic relationship. We all want to meet a special man, fall in love with him and live happily together. However, as a rule, romantic relationships between men and women are much more complicated than it seems at the first sight.
Men usually don’t want to commit and don’t like any duties and responsibilities. It’s a great problem for many women. However, you should understand that nothing happens without reason. His behavior is caused by some issues.
Maybe, earlier your significant other has had difficult relationship with the person they he really loved, maybe his previous partners cheated on him, or there can be a number of other reasons, why he doesn’t want to commit.
However, you can solve this problem, and we are going to help you. Today, we are offering you 10 ways to make your man all yours. All of them are rather simple and don’t demand a lot of effort. Let’s see what they are.
#1 Be easy going
Men are less complicated than women. That’s why they like everything to be simple, relaxed, and easy going. They will never commit to a woman who brings only stress and anxiety into his life. So you should be relaxed, calm, and bring harmony in your relationship.
#2 Give him some time
It means that you shouldn’t make him your boyfriend after just a couple of dates. It will only scare him. You should be patient and give him more time. Sooner or later he will understand that it’s time to become an official couple.
#3 Get to know him well
Only close people can become a real couple. That’s why you should get to know him as much as possible. You should find out details about his childhood, previous relationships, his personality, and view of life. It will help you to understand him better. Besides, in this way you may find out the reason of his fear of commitment.
#4 His previous relationship
Of course, it doesn’t mean that you should ask him about it after the very first date. You can do it only when you become comfortable around each other. You can discuss both his and your previous romantic relationships. In this way you’ll see, why he doesn’t want to commit and solve the problem. Remember to be honest.
#5 Be nice with his friends
Friendship is an important part of our lives. That’s why it’s really important to keep our friends and loved ones in good relations. However, if his friends like you, it will be much easier for him to commit to you. When they treat you like their friend, he’ll see that you are a really nice person. So just be easy going, be nice with his friends and everything will be OK.
#6 Reward him
If he is afraid of commitment, it’s also rather hard for him to behave like your boyfriend. That’s why when he behaves in this way, you should reward him. For example, when he invites you for some special events or takes your needs over his own, you should show him that you really love and appreciate it. When he sees that you like it, it will be easier for him to commit to you.
#7 Withdraw if they seem too hesitant
Even if he doesn’t want to commit to you, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t value and like you. That’s why the fear to lose you can make him commit you faster. It doesn’t mean that you should make him choose between you and his freedom. You just should make him understand that you also have pride and dignity and aren’t going to waste your time on the relationships without future.
#8 Your standards
We all have some standards and expectations, when it comes to romantic relationship. However, it is important to set them at the very beginning. You should let him know that you are looking for serious relationship, and that you really like him.
#9 Private space and freedom
You shouldn’t underestimate private space. It’s an important part of our lives and one of the main reasons why men don’t want to commit. They are afraid to lose their freedom. That’s why you should show him that you are not going to take his private space away and he still can spend time apart from you, with his family and friends.
#10 Your own life
You shouldn’t give all your time and attention to him. You should have your own life. Find some hobbies, spend time with your friends, become better, and don’t become too involved with him. Men like strong and independent women, and when he sees that you can spend time without him, he will like you even more.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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