Everyone has their own dreams and plans for the future. Yes, we all are strong and can achieve our goals. However, the support of close people is extremely important. When we are children, we get it from our parents. But adults usually search for support in their romantic relationships.
In relationships both partners should understand a support each other. However, very often when it comes to our dreams and needs, it’s hard to understand whether our significant other encourages us.
Having a supportive partner will help you to make your dreams come true and understand that your partner really loves you and appreciates your desire to achieve something. Such a partner will always listen, try to help and keep your motivated.
Today, we are going to help you understand whether your loved one is supportive of your life goals. Bellow you can see 10 signs that your partner really supports your dreams and needs. Let’s see what they are.
#1 He understands your schedule
Lovers like to spend time together. It’s not surprising, that nobody likes when for this or that reason their plans are canceled or delayed. However, if your partner supports you and your goals, he will understand that sometimes you have to work more.
Of course, it doesn’t mean that you should spend all your time working and neglect your partner’s love and attention. However, when you have a deadline or some complicated project, he should understand you and be ready to delay your plans for some time.
#2 He is always ready to help
When you ask his opinion or advice, he will never say “I don’t know”. He will always do his best to support you. He will offer suggestions, give his opinion and help you, even if everything he can do is a cup of tea.
#3 He likes to talk about your accomplishments
If your partner is supportive, he will be always glad to talk about your accomplishments, tell his friends about them and will be really proud of you. It means that he cares not only about his needs and goals. He also thinks about your dreams and wants you to succeed.
#4 He is interested in your work
It means that he will not only ask how your day was. He will also ask a couple of questions about your work (or whatever you’re passionate about). He will ask what you have been doing during the day, listen to your stories about your work, talk about your problems and the things you haven’t managed to do. Your loved one will be happy to support you and help you to solve the questions you are worried about.
#5 He offers advice and suggestions when it’s needed
Of course, we all are strong and are able to manage our problems. We are trying to stay independent and solve everything on our own. However, it’s important to get support and second opinion from your loved one. You supportive partner will take care of you and worry about your burdens. He will listen to you, give you his ideas, but will let you solve your problems on your own.
#6 He is shows excitement even when you achieve something small
If you come home and tell you significant other that you will lead a new project of your company, and he hugs you and is really happy for you, than you can be sure that you live with your real fan. He will be happy for you either you have achieved something great or something small.
#7 He listens to you
If he asks you about your work and achievements or listens to you very attentively when you are talking about your passions, you can be sure that he supports you and your goals. However, if he doesn’t listen to you, looks in his phone and doesn’t react to your story, it means that he doesn’t care and thinks about something else.
#8 He doesn’t let you quit your dreams
Sometimes we all feel tired and think that we do everything wrong and are just not enough strong and smart to achieve everything we want. In such moments support is vital. Your partner will never let you give up. He will listen to you, take care of you, give you advice, and cheer you up. He will never let you quit your job and dreams.
#9 He trusts you
It means that he understands that it’s OK that you work with both men and women. He understands that your main goal is your job and don’t worry (or won’t show you that he worries) about it. He understands how much your work means to you.
#10 He does nice things to you, when you are tired and stressed out
A cup of hot chocolate, warm bath, cuddles on the sofa, and other small but so important things help us to feel, that we are loved and appreciated. He will do all these things for you when you are exhausted and upset. He will express his love and desire to help and support you.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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