It is easy to understand why people get married, but it is hard to get, what makes two beloved hearts. What makes people give up all the promises they made for each other and just break apart.
We did our best, in order to figure out, which mistakes men do and what makes them regret afterwards.
We think that theses advices can save a lot of married couples that are on the fence of breaking up.
So, check out 20 best marriage tips from a divorced man.
#1. Under no circumstances should you stop caring for your beloved woman and do not allow yourself to stop pleasant meetings and meetings.
You should not take a woman for granted in your life. At the moment when they suggested that she marry you, you automatically gave the promise to be the person who will protect and protect her.
What can be the most valuable and important. She made her choice in your favor and do not forget about it. In your feelings do not indulge in laziness.
#2. Protect your heart.
Just as you guard your heart, you simply have to show love towards yourself, just like loving the world around you and leaving room for your beloved wife. Keep this place free only for your loved one and do not let anyone borrow it.
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#3. Fall in love again and again, without fear of change.
The fact is that people tend to change: you will not be like when you were married or after 5 years of living together. Your half does not have to stay close to you, provided that you do not take care of her and her heart. Remember that at any time she can give her heart to someone else. Do not forget about the struggle, through which you managed to win her heart.
#4. Notice only the best in it.
Focus only on what you love. What you have focused on will change. If you focus your attention on what is constantly annoying you, obviously everything you can see is the reasons that cause your irritation. Provided that you concentrate on what you love, then life will also be in full love and harmony. Concentrate only on the fact that you can not see anything but love. In this regard, you no doubt know that you are the happiest person on earth to have this woman in the role of his beloved wife.
#5. It is not your concern to change and correct something in its nature and behavior.
The main thing is to love your wife as she really is, excluding any changes in her behavior. In case of changes on her part, do not stop loving her in the way she tries on.
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#6. Do not be afraid to take full power for personal emotions in your own hands.
To make the happiest person out of you is not at all the responsibility of your lawful wife. Besides, she can not be guilty of being sad and unhappy for some reason. You are powerful over your emotional state and feeling full of happiness. Remember that your positive emotions are brought into your relationship by love and harmony.
#7. Do not blame your wife for situations where you are upset or angry.
Your emotional state of mind is only your process that is taking place within you. If you feel negative emotions, try to allocate some free time to try to understand and listen to yourself and to what is happening to you. Perhaps you were fascinated by this woman, because only in her presence you could heal all your wounds from childhood.
#8. Allow your loved one to be near you.
Do not take any action when she is upset. The main thing that is required of you is to hug her tightly and make it clear that everything will be fine. It is important for her to understand that she is being heard. At these moments you are the support and support, which you can rely on if necessary. Remember that women are characterized by change and excessive emotionality. These emotions can rage both inside and outside. Only with a strong and understanding a person's problems, she will be able to open. Do not avoid her when she is upset. Remain strong until the end. It is especially important to understand what exactly hides behind her emotions and words.
#9. Allow yourself to be stupid.
Laugh yourself and let it do the same. Thanks to laughter, we are able to look at some things easier.
#10. Try to fill her state of mind.
To do this, you should study the language in which her feelings are spoken. Do not forget to use those ways that make it particularly meaningful. Ask her to make a list of 10 things that, in her opinion, make her more beloved. Never forget what can make your wife beloved and desired.
#11. Be always near and give your time, attention, interest and soul.
Try to clear your mind of extraneous and unnecessary thoughts. Your attitude to it should be, as the most valuable and expensive that is in the world. Agree that it is so.
#12. Be ready to take her sexually.
Try to enthrall her with the energy of the masculine, completely absorbing her own strength. Penetrate the depths of her soul, allowing you to dissolve in your own feminine nature. All this will become available with full trust.
#13. Do not be afraid to look stupid and ridiculous in her eyes.
You are an ordinary person, who tend to make mistakes and learn from them. There are no perfect and ideal people.
#14. Give it your own space.
A woman is peculiar to give all herself. It is for this reason that she should be given personal time. This is required for updating and rethinking.
#15. Try to be vulnerable.
You do not have to be perfect at the same time. Do not forget to share your fears and feelings, while taking into account your mistakes.
#16. Be extremely frank.
If you want to bring trust in a relationship, be ready to share absolutely everything that happens with you. Take into account those things that there is no desire to share. In order to completely give oneself to one's feelings towards a loved one, a significant part of courage is required. It is courage that is required in order to allow one to love not only the light, but also the dark part of his ego. There is no place for masks. If you think that next to her you need to wear a mask, then your relationship does not have the depth that only real and genuine love has.
#17. Do not suspend joint development.
A standing pond is prone to the spread of infections, the current stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is a natural process, if you stop working on muscles, then the same thing happens in relationships that are not aimed at joint development. Look for common goals and look in one direction.
#18. Do not ask yourself a monetary question.
The material side is a kind of super prize in the game. To get it, you have to be one team, in the end, to get it. It will not work if the members of the same team are hostile. Find those ways that contribute to the unification of your common forces and aspirations.
#19. Quickly forgive your grievances and concentrate your attention on the future.
Do not pull a heavy burden from your distant past. Your past may hold you hostage. Do not allow this. Keeping behind the mistakes of the past is like holding on to an unbearable anchor, which prevents your relationship from moving forward, forward. Break this anchor chain and move on with the power of love.
#20. Under all circumstances, choose in favor of love.
This, perhaps, is the only true advice that you need. Because it is love that is the basis that governs your subsequent choices. On your way there will not be anything that could endanger your marriage. Remember that love will endure.
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