Modern young people are much more developed and emancipated than their fathers and grandfathers. They know how to bring pleasure to women in bed, but erotic films and glossy magazines form such an ideal of intimacy, which is almost impossible to match.

However, because of this, many girls complain that they do not get pleasure in bed. According to experienced sexologists, there are several significant reasons for this. There can be many answers on the question of why sex does not bring pleasure.

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To begin with, it is worth asking yourself, does your partner satisfy you both physically and mentally? Do you have feelings for him? Look at these five reasons. Perhaps, some of them can answer your questions and help you:

#1. Lack of confidence

If you do not trust your partner, you can not relax and enjoy the process. If you do not like his ideas or you have problems outside the bedroom, this can affect your satisfaction.

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#2. Low self-esteem

Many women can blame themselves for problems in the bedroom. Furthermore, they hesitate and cannot speak about this problem with their partners. It is better to discuss everything, before it is too late.

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#3. Your lover is selfish

If your partner thinks only about himself and tries to satisfy himself first of all, nothing good will come out from this. Sex means to make both partners enjoy the process and be satisfied of it.

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#4. Sex is not satisfying because of monotony

If sex becomes a routine, it can become boring and you will not be satisfied. Try to activate your desire and to diversify the process. Both you and your partner will love this.

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#5. Prejudices that make it difficult for you to enjoy sex

If you have some cultural, religious prejudices or your parent taught you that having sex is not good, this can spoil your sex perception and you will not enjoy it. Everything comes out from your head. Try to change your perception and to look at having sex in other way.

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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!

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