A long-lasting romantic relationship is a dream for everyone. We all want to find someone special and fall in love with this person. However, it’s not enough. To maintain a happy and healthy relationship it’s important to work on it.
Very often, people don’t understand that to build strong relations with their partners it’s necessary to make a lot of effort and be wise and patient. People should learn to make compromises and communicate. In this way, they will get to know each other better and become closer.
Today, we have decided to help you a little. Here is a list of questions that you should ask your partner. They will help you understand each other better and build a healthy relationship. Let’s see what they are.
#1 If you got stuck on an island with someone, who do you imagine yourself with?
Due to this question you will understand, who is the person that your partner can’t imagine his life without. You should be ready that this person might be one of his parents or children, so don’t be disappointed. Just try to understand his choice.
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#2 What sticks out to you about our first date?
The first date is an important and memorable event. It’s the day when two loving people met and decided to be together for an entire life. It’s a time when partners are fond of each other and their relationship is full or passion. That’s why this question will remind both of you of that time and bring new passion to your relations.
#3 What does your ideal day look like?
Everyone has simple daily expectations, needs and desires. This question will help you understand what your partner wants and make these wishes come true. Besides, if you already know what your partner’s answers will be, it means that you know him well. However, ask him about a realistic ideal day, so you can help him.
#4 What about me did you think was special when you decided to marry me?
Everyone has some special features. Sometimes these features attract other people and even help us find our soulmates. We become special for these people and want to spend the entire life together. Ask your partner what was special in you that made him marry you. In this way, you’ll understand him better and refresh your feelings.
#5 What after family makes you want to wake up every morning or stay up at night for?
All people have some dreams, plans, passions and so on. However, very often we forget about them since all our time we spend working, raising children and having a rest. This question will help you show him your appreciation, and you will be able to help him reach his passions again.
#6 Have I ever made you feel insecure? If yes, what action of mine leads to the insecurity?
It’s one of the most common reasons for breakups. When people feel insecure with their partners, sooner or later they leave. That’s why, if you want to maintain your relationship, you should ask him this question. It will help you see your mistakes and correct them.
#7 What is the one thing about me that needs immediate changing?
We all have imperfections. Yes, we all want our partners accept us the way we are. However, you should ask your loved one what you should change in yourself. Remember that he loves you and wants the best for you. That’s why you should listen to him attentively and make an effort to change yourself. In this way you’ll show your love and respect.
#8 If you could plan your death - how would you like it to be?
The answer on this question will help you understand him better and see his real attitude towards life. You’ll see his values, desires, and beliefs. In this way, you’ll also see his attitude to you and your relationship.
#9 Have you ever hidden anything purposely from me in the past?
You don’t have find out what exactly he was trying tide. But the fact that he has actually hidden something from you will help you understand your mistakes. You’ll see that communication is one of the most important things in relationships. Then you’ll do your best to make him trust you completely and not to be afraid to be honest with you.
#10 Growing up, what did you imagine your ideal marriage life to be like? What about your ideal home?
We all dreamed about our marriage. Ask your partner about it and you’ll see, whether your marriage is worse or better. In this way, you’ll understand what should be done to improve the situation and will be able to work on you relationship. Help him to make his dreams come true.
#11 If there is one tradition/new habit we could get to practice as a couple - what would you like it to be?
Having a common hobby will help you become closer and understand each other better. That’s why you should just find something that will be interesting for both of you and do it together. You can read a book, take care of your garden, listen to music or just communicate. Even one hour a day will be enough. Just try it and you won’t regret it.
#12 Do you have blind-eyed trust in me?
We all know that trust is highly important for romantic relationships. This question will help you see the level of trust in your relationship, see your mistakes and work on them. You should do your best to let him trust you.
#13 For how long do you see us having passionate sex?
Sex is an important part of relationships. That’s why you should ask this question. It will help you to understand, whether your sex is still passionate. If he tells you the age that is just a few years from now, you should try to spice your sexual life up.
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