Female communication conceals a myriad of precious and undersea stones in itself. Representatives of the fair sex endure loneliness with difficulty, even if the most reserved people do not see their friends regularly, then at least they use the possibilities of modern Internet technologies.
It is very important for women to have social acceptance, as well as the satisfaction of the need to throw out their own emerging feelings and emotions. Features of the female psyche do not allow them to just silently listen to a friend, women exchange not only information, but their emotions and sensations.
The simplest behavioral model considers the most important condition for any pair interaction: exchange of positive reinforcement and negative reinforcement. Women should receive maximum positive and minimum negative emotions from each other and from the process of interaction to develop and maintain their friendly relations.
In the case of communication between two or more women, it is often possible to observe the friend-mirror relationship model, when the self-knowledge function is emphasized, and the partner is given the role of reflection. In other words, the opinion of other women is significant enough for each woman. Therefore, it is not superfluous to know what phrases and actions can destroy the strongest friendship and minimize communication between friends:
#1. Saying 'You look great. Have you lost weight?'
This may seem like a real compliment. However, a person might not like getting a compliment. A woman could start thinking that she was fat before, or something like this. Your compliments should not lead to deep analysis. It is better to say something really pleasant.
#2. Using the “B” word
First of all, this is rude. No woman will like hearing this word addressed to her. It is better to think about why your friend crossed the line, than to say offensive words. Try to have a positive conversation. Negative always leads to even more negative.
#3. Saying 'Does this make me look fat? '
Remember, nobody will tell you the truth. So, there is no sense in asking this question. If you are hesitating to wear your favorite jeans, just change them for a dress and feel beautiful and confident.
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#4. Saying 'When are you going to have a baby?'
This is a very frequent question nowadays. However, be careful not to offend your friend’s feelings. It may happen that a person wants to have a baby, but she just could not. Or there are some other circumstances. You should be careful with such a delicate topic.
#5. Spreading rumors
This is a sad fact, but some women never grow up. They spread rumors while at high school, and continue doing this even now. If you want to have close relationship with your friends, try not to spread rumors.
#6. Saying 'I do not understand why you’re single'
Being single doesn't mean being lonely. Maybe, a woman wants to focus on her job, oh her hobby, or something else. However, there can be the other side of the coin. A woman can worry that she is single, and asking her about this can just make her feel sadder.
#7. Competing with each other
Life is not a competition. Every person has their own life view and desires. So, you should not compete. Live your own life, enjoy it and be glad and proud of your friends.
#8. Comparing our bodies
There is no perfect body in the world. Every woman passes through various body changes, according to her lifestyle. So, do not compare your body with somebody else, you do not know why a person has such body. You should love yourself and your body.
#9. Comparing our accomplishments
Many women tend to compare their accomplishments with their friends’ accomplishments. However, you should not do this. Every person has his own desires, opportunities, and so on.
#10. Worrying about your age
Stop worrying about your age and telling your worries to everybody around. Enjoy every moment of your life, every age has its beauty.
#11. Not keeping secrets
If you want to keep good relations with your friends, you should keep their secrets. By sharing a secret with you, this person shows that he trusts you very much. Do not fail his trust.
#12. Criticizing other women
Nobody is perfect. So, it is not good to criticize other people a lot. Doing this, a person shows his low self- confidence. It is better to see positive traits of people surrounding you.
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