We all know that romantic relationship is a rather complicated thing. It’s not enough just to love someone. You should be ready to put their needs over your own, be patient, wise, and work on the relationship a lot.
However, at first it’s very important to make sure that it a true love and not something else that will go away in a short period of time. Very often people confuse love with lust, and as a result their relationship ends with a breakup very soon.
To prevent such an awful ending of your relationship we have prepared something important for you. Here is a list of the signs that it’s lust not love. This information will help you to see your mistakes, correct them, and be happy with a person who really loves you. Let’s start.
#1 You are dressed to impress
It means that you do your best to look perfect when you are going to the date with this person. You spend a lot of time to wear perfect makeup and choose the best dress. It means that your relationship is superficial. When people meet their true love, they don’t pay attention to each other’s appearance, their inner worlds are much more important.
#2 Lack of meaningful communication
It’s a well-known fact that communication is an important aspect in the romantic relationships. However, people who don’t truly love each other don’t talk about serious things like their fears, dreams, plans, and so on since it makes them vulnerable and unprotected in front of their partners.
#3 They look like sin
When the partners are connected just with lust, they don’t see each other’s flaws. Each of them thinks that their partner is amazing and has no imperfections. However, no one is perfect and this thought comes to us together with a true love. Only when you see all the flaws of your partner, their bad habits, features of character and are ready to accept them, you can be sure that you have found the right person.
#4 Your time is spent tumbling
When people really love each other, they spend a lot of time communicating, going for walks and to the movies and so on. They enjoy each other’s company. However, when the partners are connected just with last, the majority of their time they spend being physically intimate.
#5 No emotional connection
The partners, who have no emotional connection, feel uncomfortable and awkward when they have nothing to talk about and just sit in silence. When people are in love, they are comfortable with each other’s silence, and it’s enough for them just to be together and look in each other’s eyes.
#6 Your memories
As we have already mentioned, the partners who are connected with lust spend the majority of their time in the bedroom. That’s why their memories are connected only with this place and what they do there. They have no pleasant memories about common trips, interesting movies that they watched together, funny jokes that they have made up together, and so on.
#7 No plans for future
When people really love each other they think and talk about their future. They talk about their future house, children, and so on. However, when the partners are connected with lust, such thoughts don’t even come to their minds.
So if you want your relationship to be long-lasting, you should work on it. You and your partner should communicate a lot, get to know each other better, and not to be afraid of the difficulties that may happen. If you want to be with this person, it’s important to create a base that will help you build strong and happy relationship.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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