Breaking up is a painful experience that can be very hard to go through. You may think that in order to make it easier, you should stay friends with your ex. But that is wrong opinion.
Believe us, breakups require time apart to break the couple connection created during the relationship and building a new life. You should understand once and for all that remaining friends with your ex may prevent you from moving on, negatively affect your new relationships and cause pain.
In this article, we would like to show you some reasons why staying friends after a breakup is not a good idea. If you want to survive a breaking up, scroll down to read this article right now.
#1. Devote some time to surviving a relationship break-up
The only way to heal after a painful breakup is to stay away from your ex boyfriend. Give yourself time to think about your life, find a balance and correct mistakes. Seeing with your ex may result in new pain and insults.
#2. Your ex will never become your real friend
Breaking up can be very difficult, no matter who ended the relationship. If you want to maintain a friendship with your ex boyfriend, you just can't let him go.
A true friend will always listen to your worries and support you. A true friend will not judge your actions or hurt your feelings. A true friend will listen all the details of your dates. Will your ex boyfriend do all these things? We don’t think so.
#3. You had a strong connection
Once you have been so intimately close with someone, it is impossible to become friends after breaking up this bond. You had a deep connection and it takes time to start thinking about your ex, as about your friend.
#4. It prevents you from moving forward
Staying friends with your ex make it difficult to move on. If you want to start a new life, you should close the door for your ex forever.
#5. It may result in fights with your new boyfriend
If you have started a new relationship, your new boyfriend may feel threatened. Being friends with your ex can ruin your new relationship. It is time to decide exactly with whom you want to be.
#6. Your ex is trying to ease your pain
If he is trying to end up a relationship and asks you to be friends, he may try to ease your pain after breaking-up.
#7. You still feel pain
If you are trying to become friends with your ex, you are secretly hoping you will bring your relationship back. The problem with that is, your ex boyfriend may move on faster than you thought. Every time you will see him flirting with other girls, you will feel pain.
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