When you find yourself getting to know a new guy, your mind will definitely wander to imagining what the first kiss between you will be like. You don’t need to leave it all to chance. There are ways to prepare the mood so that your first kiss with the guy you’re into is a special one.
Consider these 17 ways to make your first kiss a memorable one:
#1. Make the first move
Guys usually feel the most pressure to find the right time to move in for the first kiss. Let him relax by making the first move. He’ll be taken off guard and the kiss will be more natural.
#2. Choose a nice setting
If you’re planning on making the move on your next date, think about where you want to go. Maybe you want to take a romantic walk in the park or find yourselves on an empty street for the exciting moment. It will be a place you’ll remember so make it nice.
#3. Be ready for kissing
Make sure your mouth is ready to have your guy’s tongue in it. Try not to eat any foods with strong flavors and keep mints on hand for after dinner.
#4. Let him lead
Once you get started, allow your guy to take the lead in terms of the pace and direction of the kiss. Guys like to feel like they’re in control so this will spark his desire to keep kissing you.
#5. Go for it
Don’t hold back. Let your kiss tell your guy just how into him you really are. There’s nothing less attractive than a kiss without passion.
#6. The right outfit
You want to look good at the time of your first kiss, but what’s more important is feeling completely comfortable. Wear an outfit that makes you feel naturally beautiful and it will transfer into your kiss.
#7. Be hands on
Don’t be afraid to let your hands explore your man during the first kiss. He will think it’s sweet when he feels your timid and curious touch.
#8. Enjoy the kiss
No need to rush. Once you get started, you can enjoy your kiss and let take run its course. There is no reason to stop kissing as long as you’re both enjoying it.
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#9. Add other touches
When you’ve managed to get your heart rate under control, start being purposeful with your hands. Touch your guy’s back and neck firmly to let him know you like the kissing.
#10. Use the dark
Kissing in the dark can be sexy and also allows both you and your partner to let go and be fully present in the moment. Some light is fine, but aim for a romantic ambience.
#11. A good spot
You don’t want to kiss just anywhere. Once you choose your desired location, think about what spot will create the best environment. Maybe you want a bench to sit on or a tree to lean on.
#12. Involve food
If you happen to have dessert of some kind, you can use it to make your kiss more playful. Take a bite and feed your partner while kissing them.
#13. Watch the weather
Kissing in the rain just is not as romantic as it looks. If you know that weather will present a challenge, try and find a way to kiss inside or under cover from undesirable weather conditions.
#14. Be bold
Don’t worry about societal norms. Guys love it when a woman is willing to take control of the first kiss. Make your intentions clear and your guy will follow.
#15. Use technique
Kissing is an art and you don’t want to approach it as anything else. Stick to classic techniques at the beginning of your first kiss, and let it develop on its own.
#16. Keep contact
Once you start kissing, touch your guy until the kiss finishes, and even after. The combination of your lips and your body against his will make him swoon.
#17. Switch it up
Starting a kiss is one thing, but keeping it going is another. Add different techniques to your kiss to keep it exciting and fun.
The most important thing to remember is that your guys is thinking just as much as you are about the first kiss. Relax and focus on connecting with your guy and enjoying each other.
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