We all, of course, love or love. But, for some reason, not always our love was understood and appreciated by our partner. American psychologist Chapman investigated this topic and understood one simple thing. We all show our love in different ways and the way that we show Chapman called "the language of love." He singled out the five basic languages of love.
3) words of support and approval
4) co-conducted quality time
5) care, acts of service
Below you will find more information about the love languages and above presents for the V-Day that correspond to each of the five languages the best.
#1 The language of love is a touch.
This manifestation is characteristic of people with developed kinesthetics. Who through physical contact interact with the world and receive basic information. People like that like to hug, touch, touch. They may like when they are affectionately touched. When a loved one comes up from the back and hugs. They like to sleep in an embrace. The skin of such people is very sensitive. If your loved ones or loved ones are of this type, then it will be nice if you, during a walk, take her hand. If you constantly kiss and hug. Sex is also part of the touch.
An excellent gift for Valentine's Day can be a certificate for hair treatment or a romantic evening in the SPA.
#2 Receiving gifts
For people of this type, gifts are a message that a person loves them, appreciates and respects them. Such people willingly give gifts and also like to receive them. For them, it is not so much the high cost of a gift that is important, but the very fact of attention in relation to their person. An example of my acquaintance: She recalls with pleasure as a child, grandfather for love hid her in some money for her. And she suddenly found and was very happy and grateful to her grandfather.
In order to impress such a person it is necessary to periodically give something, make any surprises. Let them be not expensive, but they are inter-ethnic, romantic and pleasant. From them, the inner vessel of love of such a person will be filled. He will feel that he really loves. And of course he will in return give you presents.
To make a person pleasant is easy! Present a master class of pottery or a tour of the unusual places of the city.
#3 Words of support and approval
These people need to be praised and admired by them. They said compliments. If you notice that a person always tells you warm words and compliments, then most likely he himself really needs them. And when he hears them, he will become more calm, confident, open, kind and loving. This person will understand that he is needed, that he is loved. You can read about your love in my book.
A t-shirt with an inscription that reminds you of an important event, an album with your photos, where movie tickets, concert tickets and trains, tickets for a "your" group concert or a movie for "your" film are pasted.
#4 Qualitatively spent time together
This includes any joint activities. From sharing TV, to traveling to distant countries. Such people are annoyed when the couple came home and dispersed in their corners. It is important for them to do something together. Together watch TV, cook together, discuss a topic. Go for a walk or go in for sports together. Even a joint cleaning of an apartment can give them pleasure.
Romantic dinner is perfect for couples who communicate in this language of love.
#5 Care, service
She can cook, wash, iron shirts. He can help, repair something. Or in other ways, take care of your wife. If you see that your spouse cares for you, then you will take care of him, he will be very pleased.
For a gift, for example, the book Ray Bradbury and his "Wine from dandelions". For a quiet and secluded holiday, go for a weekend at the Grand Admiral Resort.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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