For very emotional people parting is a whole story, accompanied by profound experiences of a, usually, negative nature. A person begins to feel sadness, guilt, gratitude, love and other vivid emotions. The one who is left, feels rejected, which is considered a big blow to self-esteem in the existing cultural tradition.
Each person has his own idea of what kind of relationship he wants to have. This view is formed throughout life. Everything begins with the experience of relations in his family, then the experience that is acquired in the process of building friendship or love relationships.
Sometimes every person has doubts about whether to continue his relationship or end it. It is a very difficult period and you should be sure in your decision. If you are thinking about ending your relationship, ask yourself these five questions:
#1. Are you looking for the “perfect person” in your partner? All people have their expectations. However, sometimes overly high expectations can destroy even the best relationship. We cannot always meet all our expectations, and this is normal.
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#2. Is my relationship unhealthy? Do you feel happy in your relationship? Do you feel enough personal space and respect from your partner? These are very important factors for a good relationship. If your partner tries to manipulate you or if he constantly lies to you, this means that your relationship is destructive.
#3. Is my situation too stressful to make a decision? Too much stress can affect your perception of your life and your relationship. You need to think clearly to make the right decision.
#4. Are third parties affecting my relationship? If any of your close people are against your relationship, you may feel worried and start having doubts. You need to separate from other people’s opinions and make your decision. Follow your mind and heart.
#5. Do I trust in my decision, or do I have doubts? If you have a lot of doubts about your decision, you should take your time and think about it properly. Do not rush, your decision can change your life.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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