One of the worst feelings in the world is realizing that the person you’re with is starting to lose interest in you. It can feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you, and you may have no idea what to do. There’s no need to panic. You can try to salvage your relationship in very specific ways.
Try these 15 things is he seems to be less interested in you:
#1. Don’t read into things
First of all, don’t assume that everything he says and does means something in relation to his interest in you. You will only drive yourself crazy! Don’t try to understand what he’s thinking at every moment.
#2. Consider confusion
Accept the fact that your guy may simply be passing through a period of feeling doubts about the relationship. This is natural and doesn’t mean things will end. It is not something to take personally.
#3. Light the fire
Be honest with yourself. If the excitement has decreased over time, make an effort to boost it back up by trying new and fun things together.
#4. Avoid overreactions
When you notice that your guy is pulling away, all of the bad thoughts you have about yourself will come to the surface. Don’t go down the rabbit hole.
#5. Figure out your timetable
You are two people, it’s not all about him. Ask yourself how long you are willing to put up with your partner’s uncertainty about your future together.
#6. It’s not all on you
Avoid falling into the trap of blaming yourself for your guy’s loss of interest. Things change and so do people.
#7. Sit down
Stop trying to fix everything and instead give some intentional space to the relationship. That will give you really good insight into what’s actually happening.
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#8. No manipulation
There’s no reason to try and make your partner feel the pain he’s giving you. Don’t waste your time showing him you’re not interested either as a game. It will only end in more tears.
If you’re not sure what’s going on with your guy, just ask him directly. There’s no need for you to play a guessing game.
#10. See clearly
Be sure to realize what’s going on in the situation, and try to help your guy seek clarity as well. Confront him and let him know the situation is confusing.
#11. Are you interested?
Don’t forget to ask yourself how you feel. Noticing your guy isn’t as interested can trigger the notion that you need to rescue the relationship. It is possible a natural end is on the horizon.
#12. Let it go
Remind yourself that you cannot control anything that your guy is feeling, thinking, or doing. Do your best to let go of ideas that you can shape his choices.
#13. Control yourself
You do control yourself and so you can choose how you want to react to the feeling of your guy losing interest.
#14. Remember your worth
Just because someone loses interest in you, doesn’t mean that you are less valuable as a person. Detach your self-worth from the outcome of your relationship to protect your feelings.
#15. Prepare for what’s next
Brace yourself for the possibility of an end, and start considering the opportunity that comes with moving on.
When a guy loses interest in you, it is not the end of your world. Use these ways to deal with the situation and keep your head high.
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