Is it possible to have an ideal relationship? This question is sooner or later asked, perhaps, by every adult person who has experience of a relationship with the opposite sex. Why does everything come to an end when it started so well?
Is it real to find an ideal partner, and in the future to have a strong marriage? Of course, it is quite real. However, many women make mistakes, because they create a certain scenario about a perfect partner and about a perfect relationship in their head.
Of course, everyone has a model of an ideal relationship or an ideal family, laid down in childhood. It arises from fairy tales, which parents read to their children before bed, and from the model of the relationship between parents in the family.
#1. Fairy tales vs. real life. All ladies remember fairy tales when a prince fell in love with an ordinary girl. All ladies are looking for their prince. This can prevent them from seeing a really good guy near them.
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#2. The ‘perfect’ partner. It happens very often that in order to make their children find the best partners parents do not understand that nobody is perfect. So, these people can spend their whole life in searches.
#3. Too much comparison. It often seems that other relationships are better and somebody’s partner is better. However, you do not know the inner side of those relationships.
#4. People create the model of their partners and tries to find such a person. Imagination is good and you need to understand what kind of relationship you want. However, too high expectations can only spoil everything.
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#5. Ladies want their partners to read their minds and to understand everything without any words. This is impossible.
#6. People should not think that their disappointments in something are a lack of love. It happens very often that everything goes out of too high expectations.
#7. Many people like to think that they will change their partner and are trying to do this for the whole life. If you love your partner, you should love him such as he is.
Every person has his dreams and ideas about his perfect relationship. However, it is always useful to try walking in your partner’s shoes. Having too high expectations and dreaming about some ideal virtual relationships can just spoil your real one.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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