When we fall in love, the whole world is centered on one person. There is nothing wrong with it since no one wants to lose that only that you have been looking for so long, right? There is no wonder why our subconscious mind can play a cruel trick on us.
The things are that usually, our greatest fears find a way of haunting us through our dreams and losing your loved one is the favorite scenario. What is more, you can lose someone you love in your dream in different ways, and if your significant other is cheating on you even in your dream – that counts as losing.
That is why we have been courageous enough to submerge in the world of dreams and to present to your attention a few reasons why exactly do you dream about your loved one cheating on you.
#1 Future possibility
You are what you eat, but you are what you think about as well. What we are trying to tell you here is that you may dream about losing your man to someone else simply because you think about it too much. Let’s face it such a thought has crossed all of our minds once or twice even if there have been no signs from your partner. That is where you need to speak about it with your significant other since once you share your insecurities and have a comforting reassuring, the dreams tend to stop.
#2 Your experience
It rarely happens that we find a person to spend the rest of our lives together from the first try. Very often we go through lots of unsuccessful due to various reasons relationships before we end up with the right one. That is where all that insecurity starts, especially if you have been cheated on before. You went through it once, and you are afraid that this time the same may happen. How to deal with it? You need to start trusting your partner more; there is no other way out.
#3 A third wheel
Usually, when you think of a third wheel, it seems that your partner already is into someone else, but the reality may be slightly different. The thing is that a third wheel is not always a person. Sometimes if your partner is devoting too much time to work or a baby is taking all of your time and attention it may be treated by your subconscious mind as a ‘third wheel.’ That is why the best you can do about it is to talk it all out with a partner, see if they can cut out some more time for just two of you and see if the nightmares stop.
Very often when we are in love, we tend not to notice the obvious, but our subconscious does. What is that supposed to mean? Well, it only means that you are trying to warn yourself that something is not right and that may as well means that your partner is actually cheating. Again, the best you can do about it is to talk it out, but there is no proof that you will learn the truth. So that, you either trust your partner, or you do not.
#5 Feeling left out
The thing is that we are all head over heels about each other at the beginning of the relationship but with the time that affection starts to seize and transform into something else. It is not bad that your relationship is transferred to the next level, quite on the contrary. But the fact that your significant other does not act around you the way he used to before can trigger all those thoughts and dreams about cheating. Try to flash back on how it was before and what has changed over the time you are together. Who knows, maybe you started behaving differently and that provoke such a reaction from your loved one. The reasons may be different, and it is always nice to talk them out!
Falling in love as well as out of it is easy. The only thing that requires a fair share of constant work is maintaining the relationship. Getting together with someone does not mean that it is going to be all unicorns and rainbows, difficulties happen, and if you are a keeper, you will get through them together. Trust is a most important thing in your relations as well as all the talking. Once you are confused, scared or anything else, you should better spill the beans and figure it all out with your love!
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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