It can seem like an impossible task to get a guy to fall in love with you, but there’s no need to worry! Men are simpler than they seem and there are specific things that peak their interest. You can use knowledge to your advantage and develop into the type of woman that men love.

Here are 9 common types that men fall hard for:

#1. Unique

You may be thinking that all people are unique so how could you possibly stand out. The point is that you don’t need to try. Just be yourself and your guy will notice that rather than trying to fit the mold, you stick out because you’re you.

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#2. Independent

If you’re constantly basing all your needs on your guy, he’s likely to feel pressured and lose interest quickly. Guys want to know that the girl’s they’re with can stand on their own two feet.

#3. Self-respecting

Just like you want to be respected, men want to be respected as well. They want to be sure that you respect yourself because if you don’t, then how will you be able to respect him?

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#4. Fulfilled

Make sure that before all else, you commit to loving yourself. A guy will only be able to give you as much love as you give yourself. It’s not your guy’s job to make you happy, and he wants to see that this responsibility will not fall on him.

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#5. Sexually confident

If a guy is serious about you, he will be interested in deeper connections than just sex. You can show a guy that you’re the type of woman he’s interested by having sex only when it feels right to both of you. There’s no need for sexual intimacy if a connection is not genuine!

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#6. Put together

Your guy wants to feel like he can introduce you to his friends and family without their judgment. While you don’t need to have everything figured it, he will want to know that you are at least managing your life and responsibilities.

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#7. Relaxed

Relationships are not meant to be stressful or hard, but to add value and fun to your life. Men really like to spend time with women who are able to relax and go with the flow. If you’re able to chill out and engage in his hobbies as well as yours, he’ll see that you’re truly interested in him.

#8. Helpful

Men are looking for a partner to stand by them in good times and bad. That means that want to see that you’re willing and eager to help them when in need, as they will do for you.

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#9. Exciting

When a guy gets bored, his instinct is to move on. He’s looking for a girl that can keep his interest by doing new things together and growing alongside him.

Do you see yourself in one of these types? Chances are that you already exude one of these types, if not more. Be yourself and keep moving forward!

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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!

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