Today, it’s rather hard to build a healthy romantic relationship. For some reasons, people can’t stay together for a long time and their relations end in breakups. Maybe it happens, because people don’t get the partners they expected.
Yes, we all have some expectations and thoughts about our future partners. And when we meet someone, we think that this particular person is that one, who we were waiting for. And only later it turns out that they are completely different.
We all want to manifest our perfect relationship. However, it’s not an easy task. Many people believe in the rule "Think it and you will see it". And when we for some reason don’t get what we wanted, we feel rather frustrated. Many people give up thinking that it’s just impossible to meet a perfect partner.
Yes, in reality we really get what we want. Some people would say that it’s not true since they were waiting and thinking of a beautiful prince or princess and got someone completely different.
It happens because when we think that we don’t want our partner to cheat on us, or we don’t want to be single, we actually want it subconsciously. In our subconscious some part of us thinks that all this stuff is everything we are worthy of.
It turned out, that our conscious wants for us only the best things life can offer, when our subconscious is looking for a new bright life experience that also includes all the emotions and feelings that unhappy relationship or loneliness can bring to us.
You should understand that our subconscious controls our life. It includes beliefs that have started to form since our childhood. They were formed by the influence of our parents, friends, media and all the experiences we got during our formative period.
When we get hurt or are exposed to some toxic modeling, it affects our brain and programs it with these beliefs. In this way a loop is created, that makes us go through the same negative situations again and again.
For example, if someone says a girl of twelve years old that she doesn’t deserve the person she is interested in since she isn’t good enough for him, her brain gets a program that she is not worthy of a good partner at all.
This belief will make her to search for a man who will abuse her all the time, and she will think that she has no choice but to deal with it. This woman just doesn’t believe that she is worthy of a good man who will really love her. To solve such a problem one should hire an expert, who will help them get a new program and form new beliefs. Only in this way we can get a perfect relationship and finally change our lives.
So as you can see, our childhood and the beliefs we get during this period have a direct impact on our lives. It’s important to get to the bottom of your subconscious beliefs and understand yourself. Only then you’ll be able to get a perfect relationship.
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