Love lives for three years. Many psychologists have tried to prove this for a long time. The French publicist Frederic Beigbeder even contributed to the popularization of this topic, devoting a whole novel to it about the original doom of any affection.
Is this true that after only three years, what was so strong and all-encompassing simply goes away and dies? In practice, unfortunately, this is often true: even the most vivid feelings can fade over time. There can be many reasons for this.
People do not always part because of jealousy, betrayals and other passions. Sometimes they just breakup because of the difference in views, the incompatibility of biorhythms and so on. Love is chemistry. It is hard to explain why you suddenly stopped loving such a nice guy, who had been your hero. Let’s look at five things you can do when love is dead:
#1. Embrace thoughts about divorce
Thinking about a divorce does not mean an actual divorce. Your thoughts can be a clear sign that you need to do something to restore your marriage. Just put some affords and you can see positive changes.
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#2. Avoid pornography
There is no research that can show that pornography is good for any marriage. You can only hurt your partner even more. Do not practice it too much.
#3. Talk to your friends
Talking to your close people about your problems can help you understand something and even restore your relationship. Do not be afraid to discuss your marriage with your family of friends and ask about their opinion.
#4. Express gratitude
Many relationships break up because some of the partners feel a lack of gratitude from their partner. Do not be afraid to show your gratitude.
#5. Stay in the marriage
Do not leave your marriage at first difficulties. However, if you feel yourself bad or there some issues of abuse or your partner is not faithful, you should not put up with this.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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