Cheating happens. And it's no secret that men are far more likely to cheat on their partners than women are. However, most males don't usually decide to cheat in one day. It is a long process, which means that in between those days, weeks, months or even years, he may have fantasies about other women.
There are so many reasons why men cheat. Forty-eight percent of men cheated on their spouses just because they couldn't deal with their emotional hunger in marriage. Other men cheated because they felt sexually deprived.
Of course, a man will try to stop thinking about another woman before making a sudden decision. If you have any doubts concerning your husband, you should analyze your relationship as soon as possible. Be careful, here are seven signs he is having fantasies about another woman. Scroll down to read this article right now!
#1. He doesn't want to talk to you about his thoughts and feelings
Jane Greer is a couple therapist who claims that men who consider cheating may try to get some emotional distance their women. If your partner stops sharing his feelings with you, he may be looking for someone to listen to him.
#2. He watches porn
Watching porn is a short step away from taking cheating to the next level. It means if you don't fulfill your husband’s “fantasies”, pornography will tell him that there is always other women out there who will satisfy his needs.
#3. You don't live up to the standards set by other women
If he compares you to someone, it is not a good sign. No one is perfect, and if he cannot see how beautiful you are, he may think about someone else.
#4. He gets angry when you ask his plans
If he gets defensive, when you ask him simple questions about his work or friendship, that is not okay.
#5. He picks his buddies over you
If he always puts his friends over his family, he is pulling away from you.
#6. “I love you, but...”
Love should be unconditional. If he tells you “I love you, but you need to drop a few extra pounds”, or “I love you, but I want you to wear makeup when I get back from work”, it means he thinks about someone else.
#7. Trust your instincts
It's your husband and you know him well. If you suspect that he’s behaving weirdly, you should find the cause. Trust yourself.
Remember that you can always find a way to save your marriage. It is easy to give up, but it is so hard to repair. “A relationship is like a house. When a light bulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.”
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