The ultimate love goal is to find your soulmate, but how will you know when you have? It’s difficult to pinpoint what exactly a soulmate is, it needs to be understood through feelings rather than words.
If you notice these 20 signs, you’ve likely found your life’s soulmate:
#1. Future talk
Finding your soulmate will probably lead your mind to create visions of the future. It won’t stop there, however. You and your guy will actually discuss the future visions. The conversations about the future will feel concrete and not like a foggy dream.
#2. Easy silence
Have you ever felt the need to always have something to say with a significant other? It’s not natural or necessary. When you find the one, you’ll learn to appreciate the feeling of the easy silence that exists when there’s nothing to say and it’s okay.
#3. Undeniable feeling
Words are simply not enough when it comes to soulmates. A feeling deep inside your gut that won’t leave will exist. When you notice it, you’ll understand, and that will be the biggest sign that you’ve found your soulmate.
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#4. Natural space
Sometimes in relationships creating space for individuality feels forced. With your perfect guy, you will find that space exists naturally and doesn’t create any uncomfortable or hurtful feelings between you.
#5. Endearing flaws
Everybody has little things that others find annoying, and these little things can often develop into reasons for fighting and even breakups. You’ll notice that not only will you not cause fights about your soulmate’s quirks, but in fact, you’ll actually find them sweet.
#6. Solid support
You shouldn’t have to ask for support of your thoughts, hopes, and dreams. With your soulmate, you won’t have to. Support will come by itself for both of you for the other.
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#7. No jealousy
Jealousy might seem like a normal part of relationships, but when you meet your soulmate, you’ll see that it’s not actually the case. You’ll see that you feel there’s nothing to be jealous of and that will leave you more relaxed than you can imagine.
#8. Problem resolution
It’s easy to sweep things under the rug and let them brew into resentment in relationships. When you are facing each problem or barrier head on as it comes and working through it to build more connection and understanding rather than avoiding it, that’s when you know it’s right.
#9. Similar values
When you know your values, you won’t want to compromise them to be with a guy. You won’t need to with the guy for you because you’ll see that you share many of the same values. The values you don’t share will be respected and left as they are.
#10. Feeling desired
You will not need to convince yourself that you’re beautiful with your soulmate. Everyday you will wake up feeling that way because of the energy they share with you, and how they make sure you know they desire you at all times.
#11. Healthy union
Codependency is unhealthy and suffocating. When it works, you will notice that both of you will be able to respect the other’s needs and boundaries resulting in a healthy union where space is appreciated as much as time together.
#12. Low rage
Dramatic fights can be standard in many relationships, but with your soulmate you will find the opposite is true. There will be no hidden energy pushing you to breakdown and lash out or for them to react that way.
You won’t need to worry about your security with your soulmate. You will have the safe place you can go whenever you need to let yourself breathe.
#14. You’re ready
When you meet your soulmate, you will be in an emotionally ready state. That means you will have done a lot of work on yourself to heal old wounds and learn how to manage yourself day to day. Love will be a welcome paradise rather than a puzzle to crack.
You will not only feel intense empathy for your perfect match, in terms of his happiness, sadness, anger, and everything in between, but you will also have the urge to do what you can to connect with him and help him work through his feelings. Compassion for him will come on its own.
#16. Feeling good
There are people we spend time with who make us question our worth and feel down. Your soulmate will not be one of those people. Instead, you will feel as if you understand yourself and accept all that you are.
#17. Life goals
You can connect with many people in the short-term, but finding someone who shares long-term goals and ideas with you is rare. If you and your guy have similar ideas about what you want your futures to look like, then you will happily walk the path together.
#18. Big conversations
Deep discussion can cause anxiety and uncertainty, especially in relationships. You may even avoid having big conversations with your significant other, generally. There will be no need for that with your soulmate because big conversations will just be another opportunity to learn more about each other.
#19. True Trust
Trust is hard no matter what and especially if you’ve been betrayed in the past. When you notice that you’re trusting your guy with no second thoughts, then you’ll know you’re in the right place.
#20. Best friends
Your true soulmate will feel like much more than your lover. They will feel like the best friend that knows and understands everything about you no matter how short-lived the connection has been.
Soulmates are real and yours is out there. Remember the 20 clues that will tell you if you’ve found yours.
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