When people fall in love, they rarely expect anything bad to happen. But the reality proves that most of the relationships do not stand a chance to go anywhere serious. What is more, even serious relationships have a tendency to end. What does that happen? It is difficult to find a proper answer since the reasons may be many.
Yet, today we are going to share with you a heart-breaking revelation of a man who went through a divorce not so long ago. What is more, the things he shared can be used as a guide to make your relationship last. All of these things are simple to the core, but for some reason very often we tend to forget them and end up somewhere we didn’t plan to.
#1 Date her till the end of your days
The thing is that after people get married the magic somehow seems to evaporate. The routines, family, jobs they tend to kill that spark that has been between you when you met and just started going out. That is why you should better remember that and treat your wife the same as when you were just getting together, try to carry that spark together throughout the years after marriage.
#2 Fall in love with her
It seems that when you fall in love – that is forever. But the reality is different. Both of you change, whether you like it or not, the world around you change. Make sure that even though you see these changes – you accept them. Fall in love with her over and over, even when she grows old and cranky.
#3 See the best in her
There are many women out there. And when you get married you take your wife for granted; you expect here to be always there for you and what is the worst thing – you get angry with her or bored of her because she is different than you would like her to be. But you did fall for her before; you did decide that she and no one else should be your wife? That means that you saw the best in her and that should remain that way no matter what.
#4 Accept the changes
Time flies, and we all change both spiritually and physically but instead of running away from these changes or seeking for the substitution – you should embrace them. There is nothing else to prove a woman that you still love her than to prove her that you are not afraid of changes and you accept all the changes that she undergoes over the course of years together.
There are times when you do not feel your best; we have all been there. There is always something going out of hand; something fails, you get mad or sad, or disappointed. But no matter how you feel you should in no case blame her for that. She is always there for you but the thing she can’t control happen, and she is not responsible for your failure. Learn to share with her instead of burdening her with your negative emotions or attitude.
#6 Make her laugh
Sadly, many women smile less and less; this is not the case with everyone but with the majority. It is understandable when you build a family a whole lot of new responsibilities comes in. That is why, whenever you see your wife sad – make her laugh, get silly, do whatever it takes to take that sadness out of her eyes and she will repay you greatly.
#7 Be there for her
You should be with your wife all the time. It does not mean that you should quit your job or anything. No, you need to devote to her not only your spare time but your attention, thoughts, and focus. She needs to be constantly reminded that she is loved and cared for unless you wish to lose her.
It is as important for women to be wanted. Show her that she is still hot and desired each and every minute that you are together.
It is also necessary to allow her to have some time for herself. She spends most of her time caring for you and the family that is why you are bound to care for her and let her take some time alone.
#10 Be honest with her
Being honest is a lot more than just telling the whole truth. It is also showing your wife that despite being a strong husband, you are still a vulnerable man that she can take full care of.
Keep these few pieces of advice and value your wives!
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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