Very often it happens so that two people in the relationship do not notice that something is going south till it is too late. It is never so that it was perfect and then all out of the sudden it went to pieces. Many signs may warn you about something not being right if you know what to pay attention to.
That is why we decided to bring your attention to these 12 signs that something may be getting out of hand and you should better pay attention to them if you wish to keep that relationship healthy and together. Of course, there is no 100% insurance that there is something wrong or right about the relationship we do not know about, but you can always consider some details and to talk them out with your partner.
#1. It is all ex’s fault
If your partner blames his ex for that went wrong with the previous relationship that should alarm you at least because it means that he didn’t even think that there was a possibility that he was wrong about something.
#2. Doubts in you
When you know that he knows that you are right yet still he tries to make you doubt yourself – that is not good, and healthy relationships are not built that way.
#3. Time with family
If it is not important to him to spend time with people close to you, that means that he does not really care about the way you feel or about what you prefer.
#4. Rude to strangers
The way your partner behaves with other people, people he does not know can predict the future behavior towards you. If he is rude to strangers, think whether you wish to be treated in the same way later.
#5. No apologies
No matter how wrong he was, it is extremely difficult for him to apologize. That means that the man of your choice is not mature enough to accept that he has been wrong. It is up to you to whether put up with it or not.
#6. Cell phone addiction
These days many people can’t live without their phones. But if you are not even able to borrow his phone to make a call – that means that he has something to hide. And rarely there is anything good coming out of it.
#7. You do not know where he is
Of course, it is not about being all controlling but if it happens so that you do not know where your partner was last weekend r where did he spend his salary – that is surely not good.
#8. No nice things
People in love like to treat their other halves with small presents from time to time. If it is not your case, then you should better start worrying because that is not how people in love behave.
#9. Boundary violations
We all have some boundaries, and those people who love us will never try to violate them. Those who do not really care for us will violate them without flinching. Think which one is your case.
It may be fun to pick at one another when you are alone. But if he constantly makes fun of you in front of other people even though you asked him not to – that should alarm you.
#11. Bad moods
If he is always depressed or angry – that is a big deal, do not mislead yourself. It is best for you to step away.
#12. Ego-centered person
If it is all about him in your relationship and no one cares about what’s up with you – it is certainly one-sided, and it should warn you that you definitely do not wish to spend your life like this.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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