Wondering how to make a man go crazy for you? While it’s not totally in your control, there are things you can practice to make yourself automatically more desirable to most men. Besides looks, men focus on personality when deciding whether they find a woman attractive.

These are the 10 most common personality traits that men find attractive:

#1. Character

Just like women focus more on what’s inside than outside, the same applies to men. Guys want to be with a woman who has integrity and who carries herself with grace. We’ve all been witness to a person with bad character throwing a tantrum or insulting another person in public. Guys do not want this type of woman by their side.

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#2. Confidence

A woman who knows who she is and feels comfortable in her own skin gives off a special kind of air, and it’s that energy which attracts men. Having insecurities is normal, but allowing them to overtake your thoughts and dictate the way you behave is something that is not attractive. Focus on your self-esteem and carry yourself with worth, and you’ll see the guys come flocking to you.

#3. Humor

Nothing is worse than a person who simply can’t find something to laugh about in every situation. Life can get tough and if you’re not able to keep yourself afloat with humor, the boat will sink. Guys look for women that can make and take jokes and enjoy doing it.

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#4. Self-Respect

If you do not respect yourself, then you certainly can’t expect anyone else to respect you. That is especially true for guys evaluating their interest in you. If they see that you don’t pay attention to or care about your own dignity, they’ll be hesitant to get involved with you.

Keep it classy and know your worth.

#5. Assertive

Form your own opinions and then stick by them! Guys do not want to be in a relationship with a woman who flip-flops just because of something he says. That shows that you don’t know who you are and what you believe in. A guy will appreciate your knowledge of what you think and will be interested to hear your logic!

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#6. Affectionate

What’s the point of a romantic connection without affection? Though guys may not outwardly express it, they really crave affection deep down. If you’re not able to show your guy you care through affectionate actions like sweet touches, words, and kisses, then he probably won’t be too keen to stick around.

#7. Kindness

Kindness is something that makes a person shine brighter. We’re not talking about fake gestures you make because you feel obligated, those are obvious! It’s an overall attitude of wanting to treat others as you’d like them to treat you. Guys find it hard to resist.

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#8. Ambition

A guy who’s interested in spending time with you wants to know that you have some sense of direction in your life. Share your goals and dreams with him, and you will notice that he’s immediately more alert. Guys want a partner who will stand by them while having their own dreams to chase, as well.

#9. Brains

Nothing is cute about playing dumb, and guys are not interested in this. When it comes time to converse, a guy wants to know that you actually have things to share and say, and that you’re able to analyze situations on a deeper level. Intellectual connection is just as important as physical lust.

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#10. Independence

Take care of yourself and make it obvious to your guy that you can and will. While guys like to be the protector at times, they don’t want to be tasked with the burden of having to do everything for you. When they see you’re an independent woman, they’ll feel safer to stand beside you.

These 10 things can make a man fall even faster for you than he already is. Ask yourself if you’re offering them, and make any needed adjustments!

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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!

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