A romantic relationship is a rather difficult thing. People should be ready to make compromises, put their loved one’s needs over their own and so on. And although it’s OK to make mistakes, people should be responsible for them and do their best to become better.
When we meet a special person, we expect that they will understand all this stuff. We want to build healthy and strong relationship and think that he is perfect for it. However, very often our expectations are completely different from the reality.
Today we are going to talk about 10 types of behavior a real man would never exhibit. One of the main problems that many couples face is poor treatment. One partner doesn’t appreciate good attitude and slowly destroys the relationship. So let’s see the most common mistakes men make in the relationship.
#1 He puts destructive habits before you
People with destructive habits slowly ruin their relationship without even knowing it. You will never build happy relationship with a person with addiction because they will always put their habit before you.
#2 He threatens you
This type of behavior seems to be obvious. However, very often people don’t pay attention to it. Such behavior lowers our self-esteem, makes us feel upset and depressed. You should understand that a man who really loves his woman will never abuse her. A true love is always full of respect, trust, and tenderness.
#3 He makes you do things for him that you don't feel comfortable doing
The third type of behavior is that he makes you do what he wants. You are just an object for him that he uses for his needs. Such a man doesn’t love you, it is just comfortable for him to be with you.
#4 He fails to keep his word or lies to you
It is very important in romantic relationship to be honest, reliable and keep the word. In this way the partners show their love, respect and care to each other. If your partner lies to you on the regular basis and never does what he promised, he doesn’t love you. This type of behavior is not a behavior of a real man.
#5 He ignores or neglects you
When a man is in love, he pays a lot of attention to his significant other, takes care of them and does everything to make them happy. So, if he ignores you and neglects your needs, he just doesn’t love you.
#6 He is rude
A loving man will never be rude with his soulmate. He takes care of her, does his best for her happiness and can’t imagine his life without her. However, if your man is rude with you, insults you and makes your fell upset, then he just doesn’t love you.
#7 Shows or acts on an interest in pursuing other women
Sometimes we all can feel attracted to other people. It’s completely naturally. But it’s not OK to act on this attraction. If you partner is not committed to you and spends time with other women, you shouldn’t waste your time on this person.
#8 Acts like your needs are a burden or inconvenience in his life
When people really love each other, they put their partner’s needs over their own. However, when a man doesn’t love his woman, he just pays no attention to your needs and desires.
#9 He criticizes you
We all want our partners to support us and take care of us. Of course, it’s great when you man says you his real opinion to something you so. But it’s not OK when he constantly criticizes you. This type of behavior just shows that he isn’t a real man.
#10 He takes care of himself, not of you
Yes, all people are selfish. It’s our natural feature. However, when people are together, they should take care of each other more than of themselves. So if your partner takes care of himself, not of you, he just doesn’t really love you.
So, as you can see, it is rather easy to determine the real attitude of your partner to you and your relationship. Hopefully, in this way you’ll see if you are with a real man or just with a little boy.
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