Very often we, women, conclude that we know everything about men. But what makes us think so? Is it all the social media that claim that men are all simple to figure out? Who knows. The fact remains.
That is why we dared to carry out research, and we must tell you that there is a huge list of things that men would like you to know about them. We tried to round all of them up to only 18, but we are more than sure that most of them will come as a shock to you. We are not going to keep you waiting any longer and will have a closer look at something that may not only save your relationship but also program it for the best.
#1 More action than words
It is not a secret that women love to be told that they are loved. But men are different when it comes to that. They think that fixing something around your house or doing something that makes you feel great is far better than merely saying ‘í love you.’
Men do commit, but they do it carefully since they really plan to spend the rest of their lives together with the women they marry.
#3 They listen
The fact that he does not show any sign that he is listening to you does not mean that he does not. Keep it in mind, the quitter he is the more careful he is while listening to what you have to say.
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Men like to do things together. That is why when he is asking you to share his sports obsessions why not to give it a try? The least it can do is to bond you closer.
#5 Time alone
All of us need some time for themselves and men are surely not the exceptions.
#6 Like father like son
It is true that men learn from their fathers. That is why if you wish to see how your man is going to be in the future you should better meet his father first.
Men let go of negativity a lot faster than women. That is why there is no point in bringing in the last fight since he may not remember it at all already.
That is something that men are worst at – they can’t differentiate the hint you may be giving them. If you wish them to be aware of something – talk directly.
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We all want to be appreciated and men like that as well. That is why there is nothing wrong with telling him how good he is with something.
They think about it non-stop. Deal with it!
#11 Significance of intimacy
It is wrongly suggested that for most men sex is nothing else but a pleasant activity. The truth is that men find it as important as women do and you should not underestimate that fact.
#12 The initiative
Very often it is taken for granted that a man should lead when it comes to sex. But very often men like to be led at least once in a while. It proves them that they are wanted.
#13 No mood
It is a myth that a man is always ready for sex. No, they also feel stressed, depressed or anxious sometimes and their sex drive leaves much to be desired. But we are only humans after all.
#14 When it comes to pleasure
Very often women complain that they are unsatisfied with their men. Trust us, your man wants to please – above all, but sometimes it is nice to speak up and lead him in the right direction.
It is true that men rarely can talk about their feelings, but you can still ask them indirectly, right?
#16 The needs
Men have their needs and if they are not met then inevitable happen. Of course, sometimes men look for satisfaction in work or sport, but most likely in someone else’s arms. Remember that!
#17 Long-term relationship
Sometimes it happens that a long-termed relationship starts to fall apart. You may be surprised, but your man is not the one to push it and breaks it all to pieces. On the contrary. If you show him that you are ready to work to preserve it, so will he, that is for sure.
#18 Physical performance
That is the combination of different aspects but when men age they start to feel insecure about themselves. That is why it is important to support them and tell them that they can do anything not worse than younger men.
We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!
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