We all know that a serious relationship always involves some work to be done. There are some cases when this work does not pay off, we must say, but that does not mean you should not try.
Yet, today we decided to talk about a fresh appearing, so to speak trend, called micro-cheating. To begin with, any kind of cheating takes you a step closer to the end of your relationship, no matter how small it is. So what is it this micro-cheating? The thing is that the age that we live in now is full of all possible kinds of technological miracles and all of them provide the humanity with particular advantages. One of them is to cheat on your spouse without leaving your house or without having physical contact with someone else, at least in the beginning.
These days many people can’t imagine their lives without the social media. Of course, life on social media seems a lot brighter and more fun than it actually is. With all the recent trends of nude or almost nude pictures and whatnot, it is easier than easy to fall for someone. But that is undoubtedly nothing but lust, which means that your energy has no way of coming out so is building up and makes many people desire something that they are served with on their phone screen or computer screen.
Why do people do that? The reasons are many; some people crave for attention no matter the cost and the consequences and other people like the ‘free stuff.’ When you put it this way, it seems like we are still stuck in the Stone Age, and our instincts remain nothing but primitive. Sad but true.
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What is the usual outcome of such a micro-cheating? Despite the title, the result may be as great as the one with the actual affair. There is no doubt that a person cheated on would not like the partner to drool over someone else’s body behind their back. Apart from being immoral that indicates that a cheater is not satisfied with the way his current partner looks and that is anything but pleasing, especially when it comes to a woman.
The reason why we started our article with words about the hard work that every relationship requires is that once you come to realizing how long and complicated was the way to take you to the place you are now, you will think twice whether you would risk it.
It goes without saying that every story has two sides. For example, people who are underestimated by their current partners seek out the attention of others. Once they get the desired attention, it is difficult to stop, and that feeling of high can take them anywhere with no responsibility for the consequences. There are lives, broken hearts, and broken families at stakes. But, sometimes it may play out well, and you will end up with the person who cares for you, but what are the chances?
Slowly but gradually we conclude this article. As usual, the choices are yours to make, but the happiness of others sometimes depends on your decision. It is strange that some people care about no one but themselves and they try to gather all that attention no matter the cost. Hopefully, as the time passes people will come to the understanding that perfect body is not for forever to keep, that there is something else in life, something that is far more precious. Think about it, getting old with your spouse, holding hands and having fun when you are long past middle age. Doesn’t it sound beautiful? Is it worth it to look through the pictures of your half-naked mutual friend just to stroke your ego? On the other hand is it worth to gain appreciation over someone’s broken heart?
When you think about all these questions, you come to realizing how insignificant are the reasons behind this micro-cheating but how macro the outcomes are. That is why our suggestion is, to always talk things out with your partner first. If it is all about the body imperfections, make your bodies perfect together. If it is all about the attention – find some more time to devote to each other. And finally, if you do not feel like being around each other – save the time, the pain and the tears of each other. No one forces you to be together, but when you decided to stay together, stay true to your choice with not the slightest hint of cheating!
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