If you’re going out to all the right places and still not attracting guys to reach out to you, you’re probably wondering what the issue is. There’s no need to worry. Men are attracted to specific behaviors and there are tricks you can use to help bring them to you!
Follow these 6 tips to find yourself the center of man men’s attention:
#1. Socialize in Small Groups
Think about it. If you’re out and about with a big group of people, it will be much more intimidating for an interested guy to approach you. When you’re on the prowl, stick to small groups of friends, as few as 3 at a time. Guys won’t be scared to strike up a talk and your friends can keep each other company.
#2. Keep a Drink Handy
Guys don’t want to feel pressured to buy you a drink as some kind of payment for your time. When you’re holding a drink in your hand, guys will feel more relaxed about approaching you. Who knows? By the time you finish your drink, the guy may be happy to treat you to another.
Trying to find a guy you jive with can be stressful, but the worst thing you can is go out and pout instead of enjoying your time. Smiling is natural. It’s something you do without even noticing when you’re nervous or happy. If a guy notices that you’re not smiling at all, he might think you’re too hard to crack. Keep it genuine and smile!
#4. Focus on the Eyes
When you connect with a guy who’s standing or sitting far away from you, don’t be afraid to play with your eyes. Subtly sensuous looks will alert him that you’re interested. Use your nerves to your benefit. Semi-shy eye play can be sexy and fun, as well.
#5. Avoid Career Talk
Don’t ask what a guy does when you first start talking to him. There are more interesting things to learn about people. Not to mention that immediately asking about his career may make a guy feel like you’re after money.
#6. Be Positive
It’s true that there are many stressful things to talk about them, but the time to talk about them is not when you’re out trying to have fun and meet guys! Keep it positive and enjoy small-talk about things like hobbies and interests.
Be natural and focus on enjoying your time out. Once the guys see you having a good time, they’ll want to join you!
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