The dating scene can start to feel like a difficult game after a while. You may start to feel like no matter what you do, no guy wants to move forward with your. Don’t lose hope. Maybe you just need to change your approach. There’s a specific way to go about the game of love.

Follow these 4 steps to find yourself getting the guy of your dreams:

#1. Initial Attraction

The first impression a man has of you will always be a visual one. This isn’t something to feel bad about, it’s simply the primal nature of human beings. Use it to your advantage by dressing in ways that suit your natural beauty.

When you’re interested in attracting a man, there are specific things you can do to improve your chances. Dress your body in a ways that works not in the fashion of the moment. Your curves are unique and need to be dressed that way. Don’t worry about showing too much skin, be natural and the balance will take care of itself.If you want to add an unignorable pop, wear a strong red lipstick.

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#2. The Chase

Once a guy realizes that he is interested in you, he will spend a lot of energy trying to get your attention. Let him do some hard work. Men are natural hunters and need to feel like they are engaging in an important chase to get the woman they want.

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This doesn’t mean that you need to play hard-to-get, but you can take your time in reciprocating your guy’s advances. Give him the signs that you’re into him, but want him to prove himself just a little more before you give in.

You will have him working for you love in no time.

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#3. Move to Commitment

When your relationship is well on its way, you may feel the itch for an explicit commitment from your guy. Tread lightly in this area. Commitment can scare guys away if it’s not approached carefully.

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Let commitment develop naturally. When you and your guy find yourselves in love, it will feel right to be the only people in each others’ lives. Be patient and let your guy discover this feeling on your own.

Feeling like he’s in control of making a commitment will make him more eager to devote himself to you.

#4. Maintenance

Keeping a relationship alive requires hard work and perseverance from both people involved. It’s important to maintain the fun and connection in your relationship by doing new things together and getting to know each other on deeper levels.

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Show your guy you’re serious about keeping the relationship alive by cooking for him, making him feel at home, and tending to your sexual relationship. These are simple things that guys interpret as clear signs of commitment.

Remember that just because you’re together doesn’t mean that you should lose the sense of mystery and magic. If you let these 4 stages progress naturally, you will wake up one day and find yourself in a happy and committed relationship.

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We at BetterMe want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!

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